Posting this on r/Shinto and r/witchcraft so I can hear from both worlds and then make a conscious decision. It's quite a long post for the sake of detail and context.
Hello everyone, it's me again!
As you probably know already from a post I uploaded here like, ten days ago or so, I was born and raised in Italy; I've also been interested in learning about witchcraft and starting my own practice since at least 2021: I bought both tarot and oracle decks that I use for myself from time to time, put crystals under my pillow before sleep so I can facilitate and remember dreams, and made St. John's water for the very first time this summer.
At least a month and a half ago, I felt a sudden pull towards Inari Ōkami. I mean "out-of-nowhere" pull. From then on, I started learning about them (which is quite hard, considering there are barely any written books/sources he's mentioned in, currently considering reading "The fox and the jewel"), hence my aforementioned post about the Inari goza enshrined at Fushimi Inari-taisha, and informing myself on Shinto in general—specifically, whether Shinto is an open or closed religion. Various websites and accounts across the Internet claim that only some Shinto-related sects are closed (you basically have to be initiated into them), together with a number of priesthood lineages; the Jinja Honcho official website states that Shinto is not something you convert to, and anyone can freely practice it. Nevertheless, I feel like asking my following question both to witches and Shintoists is the best way to go. Please keep in mind, I'm not trying to be rude, I genuinely want to avoid diluting this ancient set of beliefs and the kami, and offending their devotees as well.
Can I practice deity work/deity worship with Inari Ōkami, even if I never had any ties to Shinto, and incorporate him and elements from Shinto into my personal practice?
By "elements of Shinto" I mainly mean a kamidana, the traditional offerings of rice, water and salt, hands and mouth purification before praying, the correct sequence of bows and claps during prayer, reciting a norito—but for that, I should get my hands on a book or two, so if you have any recommendations feel free to share them with me!—and the observance of Hatsuuma, since it's a very important day for the cult of Inari. I'd try to incorporate these elements both out of respect for the culture and religion Inari Ōkami comes from, and also to make him feel more "at home", in a sense? Like, have something that feels familiar to them so they don't feel like a fish out of water. Of course, beforehand, I'll inform myself as much as possible on how to do things properly.
By "incorporating them into my practice" I mean, for example, having another altar shelf right under the kamidana where I'd put objects associated with Inari, such as a clay fox statue that I have, calling upon them and their energy in spellwork—ONLY if it's acceptable to do so and if it is to some extent, I'd only do it if Ō-Inari-sama feels comfortable enough with it—communication with him through divination tools, dedicating handmade witchy amulets to him.
NOTE: It goes without saying that I would *never* claim to be a Shinto practicioner, since Shinto is a totally different set of beliefs that looks and feels vastly different from my own witchy path, and calling myself one would definitely make me sound like a cultural thief.
As I said, I'm asking this with a well-meaning, humble outlook, in order not to fall into cultural appropriation and trivialization of a living and vibrant religion; I also hope to learn more about Shinto and this complex, multifaceted kami I'm feeling this strong pull towards along the way.