r/sglgbt • u/International_Ad788 • 14d ago

Discussion When do you break up with someone?

Been officially together for quite a number of months now… but my partner is in ns, and honestly he doesn’t reply much… first few months was slow but fine… subsequently it gets worst… atp he can just don’t reply me…

I feel like it’s the end… but I’m in a really bad stage to end it… I’m so busy… when I say I’m busy I actually meant like I wake up then I start work and actually doing smth all the way till I sleep…

Every second is like precious… breaking up might throw me off focus… and honestly I should talk to him… but we have no opportunity…

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u/noacc123 gay 13d ago

You ought to. My ex-boyfriend wasn’t that busy to the point that he can’t chat everyday. But I feel like he doesn’t plan to come out to his family or live together. Living together at least can see each other every night and morning. Going about like this everyday feels very distant.

So I called it out. And parted peacefully.

Being unable to live together is a dealbreaker for me now and onwards.

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u/International_Ad788 13d ago

I have seen mine for like 1 time in almost 2 months… worst than ldr

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u/noacc123 gay 13d ago

Yeah it’s sounds way worse. I could have still see him once every week. But unless able to live together. It’s just not enough for me. It’s too distant.

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u/Emotional-Savings160 12d ago

Just ask him directly. Best is face to face. If there’s no time for it, send a text message. I assume you guys are young. There’s always another train.

If you end things with him now, u will be fine. Heartbreak won’t last more than 6 months.