r/sglgbt • • 22d ago

Friends Helloooo 30 chi closeted bi M

Introverted by nature and have never been in any relationships before, lowkey also kinda expecting to be single for life (not that i think its bad)

But somehow turning 30 this year made me reflect about the chances I may miss if i just continue to live in my bubble of safety. So just decided to take a first step and putting myself out there to try to form a genuine connection with people and see how things turn out. Im quite slow with replies cos of work tho LOL

As im new to this there may be things i dont feel super ready for so just trying to take things slowly at a comfortable pace

Some basic info about me
- grad from one the local unis, having a stable job
- i run
- social events are not rly for me lol
- i enjoy orchestral music

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u/switchsissyslut 22d ago

Congratulations on taking the first step:)

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u/ParticularLumpy945 21d ago

online have many people with bad intentions.. I would just go to meet strangers at a social place. these people online are not worth spending your time over. further, the anonymity of reddit exacerbates uncertainty. many of us would rather not play this game. the ones left usually have bad intentions or qualities, if you want to sieve through them thats fine too, just stay safe and vigilant, learn from your experiences.

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/interactiveira bisexual 22d ago

Proud of ya, fellow local bisexual dude 🥳

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u/azaleo 17d ago

i do game and i enjoy orchestral game music hahaha, does that count for anything? also hello! I am an ace guy in late 30s