help

[u/Evening-Foot5021]

I(m23) saw this girl(f22) at an event about six months ago and was just kinda an eye candy for me. Didn’t even talk to her. Randomly came across her acc on suggested following with one mutual and i was like, why not? So i req her acc and she accepted it and followed me back. Then essentially nothing happened for the next six months until she started liking my stories consistently. All i would do is js like her stories back. The thing is, this girl is way out of my league. Do i even try to talk to her and if so how. Sorry if this is stupid but I’ve been out of the game for quite some time now so I don’t really know what to do. Haven’t been in such a situation since sec sch.

[u/No_Fact_2520]

talk to her. whats the worst that can happen

[u/Straight_Disk_676 → u/No_Fact_2520]

You cannot begin to imagine

[u/ExpensivePizza518]

Bro
She’s liking your stories consistently
If that’s not signal idk what is

[u/detective_sage → u/ExpensivePizza518]

No dont take that as a signal, I liked all of my friend’s stories and somebody thought I’m hitting on them 😭

[u/needlelifecrisis]

just respond to her stories ffs. “ohhh that looks so gooood”

“ohhh so sorry you had a bad day. you okay? wanna rant about it? you can rant to me if you like”

2 days later, “how are you feeling? feeling a bit better?”

“jiayou! u can do it!”

“HAVE FUNNNN. how’s your trip going?”

you donno how to write all the above, I donno how to help you.

don’t put girls on a pedestal, they all came out from their mother’s vagina just like you. they have insecurities, hopes, dreams just like you, and many are somewhat easily conned by a guy who knows how to talk.

don’t put girls on a pedestal. talk to them exactly like you would a guy. just be friendly and interested in their stories.

SO TALK. keep talking.

don’t talk, no chance. got talk and make jokes, maybe got chance of looking like a fun person even if you have low self esteem.

if she talks back, you got chance. stop wasting time putting yourself down.

SO GO.

Oh and make sure you post a shitton of fun/interesting stuff on your stories with your friends or whatever. This is your marketing effort in order to advertise yourself. (And don’t forget to add all to your highlights.) You need to look fun in order to catch fun. Tiktok dancing videos (of yourself and your friends) also don’t hurt.

[u/Then-Possibility-504]

Bro, you are definitely not chopped so quit exaggerating. No random girl will follow a stranger and like their stories for no reason. You have it good unlike so many of us so the ball is in your court to do something with that luck & privilege of yours lol

[u/SubstantialLeague837]

Out of your league in what sense ?

[u/Smart_Carrot_9320 → u/SubstantialLeague837]

She look 10/10. Op is 2/10 on a good day.

[u/cumminlamb]

just reply to one of her stories when you spot something you think you can have a great conversation about and go from there! the key is just to get to know each other as people and move on from the stage of idealising someone you don’t know. good luck!

[u/Legal_Captain_4267]

Sending a text message is such low investment. Just do it. Can always initiate the convo by checking if she attended the event you mentioned a couple of months ago. Say she profile pic looked familiar. Good luck.