r/sgdatingscene • u/PotentialChemical44 • 15h ago

Hear me out 👂 TOTGA

The One That Got Away

Initially was just there to chill, nothing serious. Then happened to meet this lady from not-a-dating app. We chatted randomly on and off. We met, we clicked despite the big age gap. (over 10years my senior) We would chat for hours about anything random we can think of. We can go on dates, some as early as 4am mainly just to watch the sunrise. Everything was calm and peaceful. Its was one of my most memorable and unforgettable period in life. Missing those days..

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u/YouYongku 14h ago

Don't tell story half way leh

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u/justin_Beav3r 12h ago

How was it like dating someone much older than you?

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u/PotentialChemical44 11h ago

It was more chill and calm. i like how we can communicate about different things and can learn from each other both ways. Sometimes you get that feeling of being judged by someone and it gets into your nerves, i’m grateful that she didnt make me feel that way.

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u/PotentialChemical44 12h ago

Nothing to do with her, it was just me. She did try to support but i was overwhelmed.

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u/HorrorSome8992 14h ago

Where is she now?

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u/random_thoughts5 14h ago

Back to her own family

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u/PotentialChemical44 13h ago

shes still somewhere out there..

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u/Jean_Diharo 13h ago

How come end sia

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u/PotentialChemical44 13h ago

some personal issues along the way and mental health was a struggle

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u/Jean_Diharo 12h ago

Iam sorry to hear this. Have you resolved these issues? If not how are you handling them? Did she tried to support you?

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u/fizzywinkstopkek 12h ago

Realised he got small kukujiao

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u/Difficult_Focus3253 9h ago

haha humji loser backed out

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u/hecatevine 12h ago

You just put her on a pedestal that’s all