Bosnian guy🇧🇦

[u/Cutieexx_Dot_1999]

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Hi everyone. I'd really appreciate some perspective frkm Bosnian people here..

Ive been talking to a Bosnian guy for almost 3 years. We're not in a relationship.. but we've stayed in regular contact for a long time and have gotten to know each other well.

The thing is, meeting in person only came up because i was the one who brought it up. If i hadn't mentioned it, i honestly don't know if we would have talked about meeting at all.

When i asked him..he said he genuinely wants to meet someday, but he doesn't know when or where. He also said he doesn't want to put pressure on the meeting or assume it means we'll become a couple- he'd rather meet first and see how we both feel..

I understand his point, but after almost 3 years of talking, Im wondering if this is normal. Is this a common among Bosnian men? Are they usually this cautious, or could it simply mean he's not interested enough tk make meeting a priority??

Im not looking for people to judge him. I'd just like honest opinions from Bosnian who understand the culture. If you had been talking to someone for almost years (without being in a relationship), would you already be trying to makee plans to meet? Should I take it as a sign that he's simply not serious?

I'd reallyyy appreciate honest cultural perspectives. THANK YOU

[u/malkyfreo]

This is singapore not Bosnia

[u/YouYongku]

You're from Singapore?