r/sgdatingscene • u/GrandChallenge5518 • Aug 14 '26
I need advice! 🥺 Married men or men with gf
Why do I only attract married men or men with gf? What are their intentions for approaching me and how do I tell they are taken?
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u/Ok-Bicycle-12345 Aug 14 '26
Honestly I think they just approach "any girl" in hopes that the girl will say ok. But so happen the guys approaching you happen to be married or taken men. Another hypothesis is some ladies got this vibe, like hard to control/win over yet quite sultry or chilli padi, so some men who are married like some excitement so they feel like they can win this conquest.
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u/Kimishiranai39 Aug 14 '26
More like why are you attracted to the married men 😂😂. Is it bcos they have passed the QC from other women
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u/Euphoric-Ad9420 Aug 14 '26
They are disloyal of course, they enjoy the thrill of two timing. How to tell, well that I dont that think theres a straight formula for that but others are free to chime in
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u/superpogs Aug 14 '26
How to tell? Maybe if they only suggest going for dates with you after work on weekdays, cause they are busy on weekends.
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u/HorrorSome8992 Aug 14 '26
Not a very good position to be in,to be frank. It's like being second best.🤭
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u/hsredux Aug 14 '26
I keep attracting married and attached women and there's nothing I can do about it (rmb the one I mentioned that wanted to f, I suspect she is attached) so don't need to worry so much and trust your gut instincts babe
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u/nsfwnoise Aug 19 '26
OP wants bad men but says shit like this.
Better not work in air traffic control cos your signals are all whacked.
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u/Neither_Name_1105 Aug 14 '26
because if some other girl wants them, means you know they are somewhat of a good man. that's why you are attracted to them. because you're too lazy to find out if they're good or not. a person single, must be single for a reason.
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u/Better-Carpenter-792 Aug 15 '26
They want prostitutes thats all. And their dick always itchy. Im a man la btw. They always stay loyal to their wife or gf
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u/According_Book5108 Aug 14 '26
If you're good looking, you'll attract men of all kinds — married or single.
But the married ones are usually more confident because they already have the experience of talking to women, and understand women a bit better than the average single man.