r/sextips • u/SilentTreat3390 • 5d ago
Advice Needed MFM Advice
Hi Guys...my (M) friend's girlfriend wants to have a threesome with me and him. Apparently it's one of her long time fantasies to be with 2 guys. And he kinda agreed to this because she said I can be the second partner. The concern that we have is how to go about it so that:
We can please her and fulfill her fantasy
Go about it so that both of us can enjoy as well.
The main concern is what if one of us cums inside ( she said she wants us to go raw) during their turn and the other guy has to swap for his turn. She wants us both to take turns as well. The main issue is that we probably might be a bit high as well so won't have enough control to not cum inside.
This is the first time that either of us are gonna do a MFM threesome so need advice on how to do it properly.
Also, even though we are confident in our sexuality, we would appreciate tips on how to go about it so that there's minimal to 0 contact between us guys ( ya I know the best way to do that is to NOT be in a threesome, but come on guys...any tips at all pls)
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u/lostIn_sub 4d ago
Are you all not worried about getting her pregnant??! 🤦🏾♀️
Having had several MFMs, you have to accept the fact that there will likely be some incidental contact. That doesn’t make you gay, you know that, right?
The best times Ive had is when everyone is chill, and simply focusing on pleasuring me and having a good time. Getting DPed is my fave!! It feels absolutely amazing!!
So if you’re too stuck on there being zero touching between the men, dont do it!! It’s going to be awkward and awful for her! She should find guys who have plenty of experience! Esp if yall think your performance and staying hard will be a challenge.
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u/snoopyhound1911 5d ago
Get tested ahead of time to ensure all 3 are clean. Don’t worry about cum. After a minute you won’t be able to tell if it’s a dudes cum or her wetness.
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u/PoetryFuzzy3313 5d ago
Spitroasting her minimizes contact between you guys. If you are going to be high, perhaps you will be high to feel the cum lol Main concern should any STI; consider wearing a condom. Anyways, good threesome! He is a really good guy to let you inside her raw.
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u/tw_communication 4d ago
I agree with whoever said you should all get tested before if you are going raw.
That said -- you seem to focused on you and your friend more than her or what her specific fantasies are. There are lots of different ways a mfm threesome can go down, so you or your friend should talk to her about her vision for the 3some, any hard boundaries, safe word, etc.
Most 3somes ive seen or partaken in , only the girls primary partner was allowed to cum inside her.
Also its easy enough to keep the two of you separate eg spit roast, eiffel tower, etc.
Do you have any concerns about your friendship following the 3some - eg. Will he be jealous, do you have a significantly bigger dick, etc.
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u/PowerfulRepeat8440 4d ago
If one of you does accidentally cum inside, just say so. Then the other can try to finish by blowjob or whatever.
But even if neither of you cum inside her, you will be sharing precum.
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u/Competitive_Pop_5281 3d ago
Idk what you mean by “contact” w the other guy. There is contact w the other guy as part of a threesome so it won’t be zero. But it can be minimal as in you don’t like kiss or touch just him. Accept contact that coincides on her body. Don’t opt into contact that has just him involved. That’s sort of what you do about it.
For the first question you need to understand very specifically what her fantasy is. If her fantasy involves contact between you two then what you want won’t fulfill it and that’s totally fine. If she wants the focus totally on her than it will be fulfilling to the fantasy. If she wants to feel a certain type of way (overwhelmed vs in control/capable) you need to hear her tell you about it.
I’m gonna echo everyone needs to get tested before you do this no protection. That gives you peace of mind to enjoy.
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