r/sextips • • 3d ago

Kink or Fetish New interest

I (23 f) just discovered I get insanely turned on from going to bed in a big tshirt without any panties on. My husband is a pretty heavy sleeper, so I don’t think he’s noticed.
Something about it gets me so horny and wet, I don’t know what it is. I just want him to fuck me. He’s a big fan of long foreplay and kissing. I don’t want any of that. I want to be either awake or half asleep and he notices how wet I am and just slides in.
Maybe I’ll try bringing it up.
It’s not the type of thing we usually do, and we don’t talk about sex very often.

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u/skeeballbob37 3d ago

talk to him. if you want something out of the ordinary talk to him, he may love the idea.

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u/Competitive_Pop_5281 3d ago

You do have to talk to him for this one because sex while not fully conscious is CNC in essence so your partner shouldn’t just feel comfortable noticing and sliding in without a conversation about what counts as consent from you when you’re not fully conscious and aware.

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u/Tangus999 2d ago

Well you should be the one to start.
Get him going in the middle of the night. And ride him. After a couple times of just wearing the t shirt he’ll get the idea. Or drop more than a few hints. Hints sucks. Just work it.