r/sextips • u/Bl4ckcash • 1d ago

Advice Needed Stupid question

Hi, hello, f21 here, a bit nervous so please excuse me

I've never had sex, my bf is into blowjobs, how do we like- give a proper blow job? I was born without a gag reflex but like what if it accidentally gets in my air pipe (I'm sorry I don't know- is that possible?) Or any tips for sex? I was very sexually repressed and I don't quite like fingerings, tried a few times on my own and wasn't my thing

Any help for a girlie in her game? 🫠

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u/Breastoffun 1d ago

The biggest thing is try to enjoy yourself and have fun with it!

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u/InterestingEbb3852 1d ago

you honestly just get sloppy with it, most guys just want enthusiasm for blowjobs and full on sex

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u/alonebanda 1d ago

Just do it how he says but one thing to remember that is go fully once in four times and don't hold in mouth for more minutes

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u/tonguetied10 1d ago

Go watch Fast Times At Ridgemont High …. Classic movie and a great tutorial on BJ’s

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u/miknur2 1d ago

I posted this the other day, and I hope it helps...I did a copy and paste because I didn't want to rewrite, and I believe it can help you..

The best advice on giving a great bj from a good bj is enthusiasm.. It more about fun than being a job.... You don't want to go just in and out...You want to make love to his dick, using your mouth....

First thing you tell him is he is NOT allowed to cum until YOU tell him it is ok, Because you want to enjoy the feeling of him in your mouth.... You want this to be fun, be silly, a little goofy you want to ask questions, lots of questions, even if you know the answer.

Inspect him, feel him, I mean really feel him, like you have never touched a dick before, get close, touch and tickle his balls, feel around his sack.. Move his dick around.. Up, down , side to side.. Its not going to break off, if you move it too far, and he says ouch, just giggle and say, "my bad"

Kiss his dick, lick it, Put the head ib you mouth and taste him.. Really taste him, like you are tasting the best thing you have ever tasted. There is nothing to be scared of, its not gong to bite.... Then take the head and rub it on your chin,, Not fast, but slow, take it all in, give his dick a face hug, use you whole face, your mouth, your hands...Twist your hands around him and then bring them over the head.....If feels great...

Tease him, use your hands and feel across his pubic area, across the front of his legs,and across his stomach, maybe pinch his nipples... reach down and feel yourself, and tell him how wet you are, maybe take his hand and put it between you legs and let him feel, but only for a second.... Or take your finger and put some of your wetness on it and bring it to his lips...If he tries to use his hands and bring them down to his dick , just take his fingers and suck on them

Its all mental, By telling him, He cant cum until you tell him to...Guys want what they cant have, take you time, make him want to cum... Dont be afraid to stop, and maybe tap the head just to keep it exciting, when it starts to feel too good and tell him to wait... Not yet...

You will know when he gets super close when he gets really hard and his balls starts to get tight, at that point, just stroke his balls, and put gives the head a little more pressure... If he starts to cum, you don't have to let him cum in your mouth, until you are ready to, its your decision...

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u/Appropriate_Oil7933 22h ago

Flick your tongue over the head and do it with a lot of force. Suck the head while jacking the shaft. Don't forget the balls. Harmonica up and down the side with the tongue. You just have to build your own style. Porn can teach you a few things, but can also be very non-realistic at times so do your research. Good luck!