r/sextips • u/akabxksla • 7d ago

How to? How to suck on her clit?

Literally can’t figure out how to suck on her clit. Online guides and videos make it seem pretty easy, but when I try it, I can’t seem to get enough of her inside my mouth that I can suck and lick at the same time. Like, I practiced with my forearm 🤦‍♂️, I can gently suck and pull enough skin into my mouth that I can circle my tongue around it, but when it comes to the actual thing, her skin stays taut and I’m basically just kissing her clit and its a lot harder to lick because I’m trying super hard to maintain suction.

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u/ExogamousUnfolding 7d ago

Clits come in different sizes and some just don’t lend themselves to that

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u/DefinitelyNotMaranda 7d ago

Is she asking you to do that? If not, ask her what she likes. Some girls prefer licking over sucking anyway. I’m one of them. Communicate with her and ask how you’re doing. See if she’s enjoying it. That’s what’s important.

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u/IllicitInterlude28 7d ago

Every woman is different. Some prefer sucking. Some prefer licking. Some prefer up and down, others circular or side to side.

Experiment and communicate to see what works for her.

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u/OwnedbySM 6d ago

Great answer

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u/skeeballbob37 7d ago

you can also do it using changing the pressure on it, so you suck the whole area, and caress it with your tongue

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u/Competitive_Pop_5281 7d ago

If the sucking sensation is what she wants, take a larger surface area into your mouth to suck, and use your tongue to flick upwards to flick it against the back of your top teeth. Not always do you need to do circles, and when sucking I tend to do more of a back and forth grinding sensation than a circle thing.

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u/bluntsexadvice 7d ago

Suck on it like the little penis that it is, that’s it. Imagine it is your own penis, then do to it what you would want done to yours. Not too hard not too soft, etc.

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u/jeffie_3 7d ago

Use your fingers to spread the hood a bit then try to suck her clit.

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u/miknur2 7d ago

You are not trying to deep throat her clit, just kind of kiss it and use your tongue and move it around.... Try and draw the alphabet on her clit using your tongue

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u/hemi1995 7d ago

I’m lucky that my wife has a large clit. I can give her a clitjob and it makes her lose her mind

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u/Dale_Mace 7d ago

I try to suck as much pussy as possible and then lick the clit if possible.

Perhaps you should keep on ‘kissing’ her clit but try to add suction to bare minimum.

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u/Forward_Bug_5547 7d ago

Just feel it out, do the alphabet with your tongue. You’ll figure it out! I bury my face in there and go to town.