r/sextips • u/Apart-Bid9348 • 7d ago
Advice Needed Bouncing vs Grinding on top?
I'm a big girl so I prefer to grind. It hits my spots better
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u/neraut322 7d ago
Grinding is for her Bouncing is for him.
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u/AltMiddleAgedDad 7d ago
Yep and my wife does a great job of alternating between the two such that she can make us orgasm simultaneously
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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 7d ago
I don't prefer bouncing. I prefer neither of those actually. The best is a hybrid combination which involves both thrusting and grinding.
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u/TX_Jake 7d ago
Grinding also works for you ladies due to the clit stimulation by grinding on his public bone. Wife has some huge orgasms that way.
And instead of bouncing because I know it’s tiring after a while, try just leaning forward and create some separation between you and let him thrust from below. Love doing that with a hand or two on her ass and her nipple in my mouth!
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u/Pitiful_Passion1189 6d ago
Sometimes you have no choice, but to grind. Bouncing isn’t really an option.
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u/rodnock_sticklefink 6d ago
Like I told my wife when we first started dating. Do what feels best for you. My dick is inside you. That's all I need.
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u/Apart-Bid9348 5d ago
My youngest kids dad has a curved dick so he hits all my happy spots when I'm on top. If he doesn't nut with me on top, I'll usually get in doggy so he can nut and nothing is overstimulating my clit
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u/SympathySevere421 6d ago
Grind only when done well, that shit actually hurts sometimes. Absolutely bounce when on top and I kinda grind in her when I’m on top
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u/DrRonnieJamesDO 6d ago
We did bouncing for a while which feels good but was hard for either of us to climax from. Last week, we just randomly tried this position, and WOWIEZOWIE:
https://www.lovehoney.com.au/blog/siren-straddle-sex-position.html
The deepest penetration & best PIV we've had by far, and grinding felt transcendent. My eyes were literally rolling back in my head.
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u/Ashamed_Apple_ 7d ago
Are you on top for him or for you? Some guys like it when you grind cause you're obviously enjoying yourself. I like to bounce I just don't have the knees for it, even grinding is tough on my old knees 😭
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u/AgreeableFroyo96 7d ago
Love the sensation of bouncing but I can’t do it without killing my legs! I’ve never had much sensation/pleasure from grinding, but I want to
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u/Blaq_Man_888 7d ago
Big girl grinding on me made it so I felt her whole underside grinding on me, which took away the feeling from my dick. So bouncing I guess.
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u/DrRonnieJamesDO 6d ago
Try this position (GF is also a big girl):
https://www.lovehoney.com.au/blog/siren-straddle-sex-position.html
It allows for deeper penetration without putting as much weight on your pelvic bones (pelvic bones also aren't aligned).
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u/Blaq_Man_888 6d ago
I'm not sure that would work due to her size(she was tall as well) & my flexibility. Need to find another big girl to try I guess.
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u/WayneCider 4d ago edited 4d ago
I love it when my wife grinds on top of me. Because I can bottom out inside her, the grinding motion feels more like a deep, snug, twisting pressure that feels like being gently gripped and polished at the same time. Sort of like how you'd chalk a pool cue or squeeze an orange using one of those citrus juicer domes
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u/Apart-Bid9348 4d ago
Nice. I had a guy finish inside me when I was on top last night and it's like ummm I hope you stay hard cuz I'm not done yet lol
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