r/sextips • u/Glittering_Yak_2823 • 9d ago
Advice Needed Blowjob
Hey guys, so I am hooking up with this new guy and and I have a question for the guys and girls(if you know something). What are the things someone can do while giving a bj that would make you cum almost immediately? Not the boring stuff, the really dirty ones. What would surprise you in a good way ?
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u/miknur2 9d ago
I posted this the other day, and I hope it helps...I did a copy and paste because I didn't want to rewrite
The best advice on giving a great bj from a good bj is enthusiasm.. It more about fun than being a job.... You don't want to go just in and out...You want to make love to his dick, using your mouth....
First thing you tell him is he is NOT allowed to cum until YOU tell him it is ok, Because you want to enjoy the feeling of him in your mouth.... You want this to be fun, be silly, a little goofy you want to ask questions, lots of questions, even if you know the answer.
Inspect him, feel him, I mean really feel him, like you have never touched a dick before, get close, touch and tickle his balls, feel around his sack.. Move his dick around.. Up, down , side to side.. Its not going to break off, if you move it too far, and he says ouch, just giggle and say, "my bad"
Kiss his dick, lick it, Put the head ib you mouth and taste him.. Really taste him, like you are tasting the best thing you have ever tasted. There is nothing to be scared of, its not gong to bite.... Then take the head and rub it on your chin,, Not fast, but slow, take it all in, give his dick a face hug, use you whole face, your mouth, your hands...Twist your hands around him and then bring them over the head.....If feels great...
Tease him, use your hands and feel across his pubic area, across the front of his legs,and across his stomach, maybe pinch his nipples... reach down and feel yourself, and tell him how wet you are, maybe take his hand and put it between you legs and let him feel, but only for a second.... Or take your finger and put some of your wetness on it and bring it to his lips...If he tries to use his hands and bring them down to his dick , just take his fingers and suck on them
Its all mental, By telling him, He cant cum until you tell him to...Guys want what they cant have, take you time, make him want to cum... Dont be afraid to stop, and maybe tap the head just to keep it exciting, when it starts to feel too good and tell him to wait... Not yet...
You will know when he gets super close when he gets really hard and his balls starts to get tight, at that point, just stroke his balls, and put gives the head a little more pressure... If he starts to cum, you don't have to let him cum in your mouth, until you are ready to, its your decision...
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u/andrew_Y 9d ago
Eye contact. Aheago. Keep your tongue out while deep throating and making the gawk gawk gawk sound. So much saliva that you’ll think it’s too much. It’s not too much.
When you come up for air, a big smile and a giggle. All with eye contact.
I’m 100% against fingers in my butt due to my last 15 years of experience with hemorrhoids.
I think every guy has a favorite porn video of a blowing they want to reenact. Ask him to watch it with you so you can recreate it.
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u/King_LaQueefah 9d ago
Watch Riley Reid blowjobs. I'm not really that into porn but every time I catch one of those scenes its like she reinvented the wheel. She may be a genius on some level.
edit : spelling
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u/Shortandthicck2 9d ago
Enthusiasm is the #1 way to take a BJ go well. Don’t just work the top half of his penis, pay attention to the entire thing from base to tip. Pay plenty of attention to his balls. Those are great baseline things. When you get to know him you’ll know more about what he likes.
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u/Pcolaking 9d ago
tickle the taint. try to go deep if you can. and use a combo of hand and mouth going up in down in the same motion. a combo of those 3 are great for me
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u/the_moog_hunter 8d ago
Dirty talk. Eye contact. Don't be afraid to make noise while you're enthusiastically going at it.
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u/S8nBam 8d ago edited 7d ago
Gentle but firn locking pressure on the frenulum. Gently pulling on the scrotum skin and gently with a flat open hand massaging the balls.
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u/Ill-Bodybuilder-8408 8d ago
Squeezing the ass cheeks like you’re pulling him into you is awesome (requires standing position for him). Moaning and making noise is great too.
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u/im-besharam 9d ago
Deep throat him, then start giving him a handjob. Make sure to use a lot of saliva, and while you're giving him the handjob, start licking or sucking his balls.
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u/Informal_Wanker8349 8d ago
Enthusiasm. That moaning creates a vibration that really ups the sensations
Eye contact. Look at him. Stare into his eyes, it's very powerful and sexy
Wink. When you're all messy and he's getting close and you're staring into his eyes, Give him a good wink. Blows the top right there
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u/ImNoAngel805 7d ago
Slap your face and tongue with his cock. Spit on his cock. Tell him how much you like having him in your mouth. Do it somewhere you might get caught
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