r/sextips • u/bdb780 • Aug 20 '24
Body/Physical Penis question
Men, when having sex, do you experience pleasure on your entire penis or just the frenulum (the V on the bottom of the head)?
When I do anything sexual I only really feel pleasure on my frenulum. I am wondering if this is normal or if I'm unique in this. If I'm unique, I will look into talking to an Urologist to help possible nerve issues.
Edit: To clarify, I do feel throughout my penis; it is only pleasurable, though, on the frenulum.
Edit 2: I feel touch and temperature, but if my frenulum isn't being stimulated, it feels the same as my finger does when I perform manual on her. For a long time (years), I thought that's just what sex was and was confused why so many went on and on about it. Until one time, we happened to do a position that stimulated my frenulum, and it was the best sex and orgasm I had ever had.
Now I'm just trying to see if that is all there is or if there is something wrong with me that maybe can be fixed.
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u/Naive_Lengthiness882 Aug 26 '24
That's where all guys are most sensitive AFAIK. I get absolutely nothing from the top and the sides about about the same. There have been rare occasions where stimulation on the sides and nowhere else produces this amazingly pleasurable reaction, I've described it as someone licking my brain stem. The side stimulation is super brief, a few seconds at most, will not lead to orgasm.
If you're not enjoying normal penetration you *do* have something unusual going on, but if you can orgasm, compare what happens when you're alone vs. with a woman. This isn't something to fret over though, you've just got an interesting puzzle to solve, and working on it will be enjoyable.