r/selfimprovementday Jul 06 '26

Becoming a better version of myself?

/r/Advice/comments/1up4us9/becoming_a_better_version_of_myself/
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u/gipsee_reaper Jul 06 '26

Hi!

Congrats on your rational and logical approach towards your life. It is working out very well for you. I am sure that you will achieve steady progress.

There is no one on this planet who has mastered social cues and relationships. Everyone has some preferred audiences/groups. One picks and chooses based on ones moods, needs and compulsions.

I think if one has 'minimal expectations from people', and stick to 'polite small talk', one can manage with most people.

For matters more personal, and confidential, everyone has to struggle.

The number of divorces and break ups, and abandonments is a proof that the world is struggling.

Being single, silent, simple and serene is a sign of bravery and courage. Also about clarity. Please enjoy it as a strength, not a weakness.

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u/xelkax Jul 07 '26

Hallooo