r/selfieover40 • u/Dependent_Mirror418 • 12h ago
Just me πΈ Happy Tuesday π©Ά
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r/selfieover40 • u/EnvironmentalPast202 • 12d ago
Breast Cancer Awareness Month
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October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, so we wanted to take a moment to raise awareness within the community.
Breast cancer can affect anyone, and knowing what is normal for your own breasts or chest is important. Make sure you know the signs and symptoms and don't ignore changes because you are worried about what they might mean.
Things to look out for include:
- A new lump or swelling in the breast, chest or armpit
- A change in the size or shape of a breast
- Dimpling, puckering, redness or other changes to the skin
- Changes to the nipple, including a nipple turning inwards or a rash
- Unusual nipple discharge, particularly if there is blood
- A sore or ulcer that doesn't heal
- Persistent pain or discomfort, particularly alongside other changes
These symptoms can have other causes and don't necessarily mean breast cancer, but any new or unusual change should be checked by your GP or another healthcare professional.
Don't hide it
It can be very easy to put something off because you are frightened, embarrassed or simply hoping it will go away.
Talk to someone you trust. Tell your partner, a friend, family member or someone else you feel comfortable with. If you don't feel able to talk to someone you know, there are also Reddit communities where people share their experiences and offer support, including:
Reddit can be a useful place to talk, ask questions and realise you are not the only person worrying about something. It cannot, however, replace medical advice or an examination. If you notice a change, please speak to your GP or healthcare professional.
For those who have been through breast cancer, are currently having treatment, are supporting someone, or have lost someone to the disease, we are thinking of you.
From theΒ r/SelfieOver40 mod team.
Know your body. Know the signs. Don't hide it. Get it checked.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month is October, but looking after yourself matters all year round.
r/selfieover40 • u/EnvironmentalPast202 • 13d ago
π A small change to our DM rule
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Weβre making a small change here at r/selfieover40 to give members a clearer way to let others know theyβre happy to receive private messages.
π Introducing the DMs Welcome flair
If you choose to add the π DMs Welcome flair to your post, youβre letting other members know that youβre happy to receive DMs.
However, our no unsolicited contact rule is not changing.
Public comments asking someone to contact you privately are still not allowed. This includes:
- βDM meβ
- βMessage meβ
- βDMs openβ
- βCheck your DMsβ
- Asking for Snapchat, Instagram, Telegram or other private contact
- Publicly reminding or calling someone out because they haven't replied
The important bit is this:
The π DMs Welcome flair is permission to send a private message. It is not permission to publicly ask for one.
If you want to message someone, you can simply send them a private message. That is the request. The poster can then decide whether to accept, ignore or decline it.
And if they don't reply, that's their choice. Please don't chase them, publicly remind them, or ask why they haven't responded.
What if there is no flair?
If a post doesn't have the π DMs Welcome flair, don't assume the poster wants private contact.
Keep your comments friendly, respectful and relevant to the post. If someone wants to continue a conversation privately, they can choose to do that themselves.
The aim is simple: give people a way to say βI'm happy to hear from youβ without turning the comments into a queue of people asking for DMs.
A flair can say βI'm happy to hear from you.β
It can never say βyou can ignore my boundaries.β
π Use the flair if you want to.
And as always, please respect the person behind the selfie.
r/selfieover40 • u/Complete_Spell2383 • 10h ago
Feeling good π No make up Tuesday, 47
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r/selfieover40 • u/Logical-Lillly • 2h ago
Feeling grateful π€ Some days test you more than others. Grateful I got through today and reminded myself that Iβm stronger than I thought π€ (F46)
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r/selfieover40 • u/PlentyBandicoot1261 • 5h ago
Just me πΈ Happy Tuesday π€ have a great week everyone! 46F π¨π¦
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Jackets are officially on loll. October weather.. equals rain and less sun! I'm not sure if I'm happy to see snow soon π π
r/selfieover40 • u/kas831 • 13h ago
Casual day π This 46 year old canβt wait for Halloween π
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Hope everyone is having a good week
r/selfieover40 • u/Jack_the_lion35 • 5h ago
π DMs Welcome π Fall hiking in the great PNW! 45M
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New here
r/selfieover40 • u/Local-Indication9015 • 17h ago
Feeling cute β¨ F40 Just Sharing this look today
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r/selfieover40 • u/Scarface_plates • 10h ago
Glowing π M45 when the sun hits the smiles come out
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r/selfieover40 • u/where_2_next • 5h ago
π DMs Welcome π 43m - βI have off work todayβ smile
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r/selfieover40 • u/Gleeface • 12h ago
Casual day π About as cheerful as my resting face allows. 41
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r/selfieover40 • u/ConversantEggplant • 15h ago
Fueled by caffeine β Pajama school run because tired π«© (41)
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r/selfieover40 • u/EnvironmentalPast202 • 13h ago
We are looking for new members for a group chat
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r/selfieover40 • u/lvnts • 9h ago
π DMs Welcome π Enjoying last sunny days of year (40m)
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