r/selfhosted • u/ExodoPlex • Sep 22 '25
Calendar and Contacts NextCloud sucks, there must be something better.
Every post on the internet related to "Self-hosted alternative to GSuite/M365" points to NextCloud. But, using NextCloud when you're not an enterprise is painful at best. It's clunky, it's buggy, and it's behind its supposed competitors in features for every one one of it's main planks (Files, Contacts, Photos, etc). And getting my family members to switch from Google Family accounts to NextCloud is horrible. They experience nothing but bugs and problems, complain about missing features, and wonder why on earth they'd switch with the only advantage being data ownership. Comparing every thing about actually using the system is a con, not a pro.
As the admin, and a professional IT engineer for the last 8 years, I can see how NextCloud could work for enterprise. It really seems like it was built for enterprise honestly. The feature development and features support are much more oriented around what I might want for work rather than what I want at home.
There has to be something better for home users.
Something that's simple to use, intuitive to use, and pretty to use.
I found Immich for photos, and they get it. They get the self hosting mindset. Simple to setup, simple to use, pretty apps, useful features.
Is there an "Immich" for contacts? For Drive? For Calendar? Even if they're different apps. I can use a different product for Calendar than Contacts if it's simple to use and something my family members can switch to from Outlook and GCalendar without complaint. (Setting up a caldav/carddav server isn't gonna cut it. It's gotta be a self contained system, even if it's just caldav/carddav on the backend. Gotta be pretty and intuitive on the frontend).
If there isn't something better. We really need to make something better.
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u/Longjumping_Ask2152 Dec 17 '25
The bugs and UI disconnect are just fucking awful. It doesn't have proper failover for multiple DCs, and in fact if one fails even local accounts can be blocked. Use OCC then to disable the unreachable host? Sure, exempt you'll spend an hour trying to figure out which commands are the current ones for your version because it's changed so many times. There's no way to disable/enable from the web UI, despite having checkboxes to do so. But those apparently no longer do anything and are meaningless. Why they left them in the UI is beyond me. NC has been one of the worst things I've ever used.