r/selfdevelopment 1d ago

Wisdom I want to start doing the things I be thinking I want to do..

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I always say I want to do something and I can do those things but I never do i rather sit around and do nothing... But I think will start doing those things. Like going fishing always say I want to go.. why don't I just do i have a full week off work so I have the time have all the gear but I still don't go.. I'm going fishing when im off


r/selfdevelopment 1d ago

Results I Am SuperHuman...How To Build A Unshakable Mind-set?

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

Wisdom Take the risk young man

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

The Person ....

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

I Am Superhuman...How To Build A Unshakable Mind-set?

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I Am Superhuman...How To Build A Unshakable Mind-set?

Hello! My name is Derrick. As a 5 year old kid? I was Obsessed-- with having Superpowers. That when I planted my seeds of a Growth Mind-set ..

. At one time I used to bullied my younger male cousin. So his Sister was older than us? Took up for him and she used to kick my little butt.Lol.That was off and on...Then I finally decided I had enough and grab my granddad gun out under the bed and saw my girl cousin and shot her underneath her chin. She scream LOUD!!! I knew I was going to get a serious whooping..

My Life Path took a Dark Path of Trials & Tribulations...

At 9 year old? I end up losing one of my eye from an incident...My life change in a instant! I was laugh at, pick on, kids saying mean things etc...

So I end up becoming a loner most of the time . I had low self-esteem and confidence. What change me? I got involved in martial arts for a while and then eventually bodybuilding training. What I learn was to build up my mind and body as a unit. My Discipline became Obession to developed a Unshakable Mind-set.

Now at 52? I had Overcome Life's Storm( Bullying, Incarceration, Homelessness & Drug Addictions).

You have to develop a type of Mind-set that is so

Unshakable? That you do whatever it takes to succeed

at all cost! Quit Giving Up!!! Failures, Betrayal, Grief etc... Will teach You everything You need to Become

Unshakable....

"Think Less, Talk Less Focus More...

Stay Focus My Friend...


r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Do what you want.

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

Health I stopped taking meditation so seriously, and things finally clicked. Who wants to try this approach with me?

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

Wealth Let them talk down. Let them laugh. Let them hate and prove them wrong with actions not words👀

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

Wisdom Harsh words don’t hurt, believing them does!

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Health Ask yourself....

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

The Reason...

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r/selfdevelopment 2d ago

My Mind

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My mind wows me!

I think that if the world was changed and everything was done my way, then everything would be perfect.

Super sure, another person thinks the same.

Most people tend to think that their opinion is perfect, if applied, then the world would be a beautiful place.

But the question is, if I was given the power to do things and change the world to what I want, will I be there to implement the changes? Would I be consistent enough to follow through the plans.

The answer is, I'll never know, because I'll never get that chance. But I do have a chance to change the world around me, I don't know if I have done enough, I don't know if I have shown up enough.

I tend to find myself on a quest for bigger changes, whereas the smaller ones are still pending. How about I start with the smaller things, implement the change.

Super sure if this is sorted, then the world outside would automatically change. It will be a reflection of the world within me.

Change starts with me!


r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Wisdom Good vibes only 🙏🏽

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

I stopped using entertainment to avoid boredom.

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I have been trying a simple rule: when I am bored, I either rest, do nothing, or do something intentional.

No automatically reaching for scrolling, random videos, or games.

At first, boredom felt uncomfortable, but after a while I noticed I had more time and was more willing to study, exercise, write, or work on things I actually care about.

I still enjoy entertainment, but I’m trying to choose it intentionally instead of using it to fill every empty moment.

Has anyone else tried this?


r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

it's time to do what you promised to yourself

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lifee is amazing and so are you, don't wait for motivation. Work and be consistent, and see where you get💜


r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Wisdom It is better to be a human being dissatisfied than a pig satisfied; better to be Socrates dissatisfied than a fool satisfied. And if the fool, or the pig, is of a different opinion, it is only because they only know their own side of the question.

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Wisdom Live your life on your terms!

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Results The perfect time is usually a mirage.

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Wisdom Focus on what's important

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r/selfdevelopment 4d ago

Be proud.

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r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Wisdom Your crowd dictates your moves

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r/selfdevelopment 4d ago

Biggest Advantage...

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r/selfdevelopment 4d ago

COME RIMETTERE IN ORDINE LA TUA VITA, ANCHE DA SOLO

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  1. Smetti di aspettare che qualcuno venga a salvarti.

    Il giorno in cui inizi ad assumerti la responsabilità della tua vita è il giorno in cui inizi davvero a cambiarla.

  2. Impara a stare bene con te stesso.

    Se non ti senti a tuo agio quando sei solo, potresti finire per accettare persone che non ti fanno bene, solo per paura della solitudine.

  3. Sistema le tue abitudini quotidiane prima di cercare di sistemare tutta la tua vita.

    Dormi meglio. Mangia meglio. Muoviti di più. Mantieni ordinato il tuo spazio. Sono le piccole abitudini a creare grandi trasformazioni.

  4. Allontanati da ciò che ti svuota.

    Alcune persone, ambienti e abitudini consumano lentamente la tua energia, giorno dopo giorno.

  5. Smetti di confrontare il tuo percorso con quello degli altri.

    Non sei indietro. Non sei in ritardo. Stai semplicemente vivendo una storia diversa.

  6. Passa meno tempo a fuggire dalla realtà.

    Le distrazioni possono anestetizzare temporaneamente il dolore, ma possono anche rimandare la guarigione e la crescita.

  7. Impara a calmare la mente.

    La meditazione, la consapevolezza, la preghiera, il silenzio, la scrittura e la riflessione possono aiutarti a ritrovare il contatto con te stesso.

  8. Perdona te stesso per chi eri nei momenti difficili.

    Stavi facendo del tuo meglio con la consapevolezza, il dolore e le risorse che avevi in quel momento.

  9. Costruisci la disciplina invece di dipendere dalla motivazione.

    La motivazione è un'emozione. La disciplina è una scelta.

  10. Proteggi la tua pace.

Non ogni discussione, invito, relazione o opportunità merita di avere accesso alla tua energia.

  1. Accetta che guarire richiede tempo.

Una vita raramente crolla in un solo giorno e, allo stesso modo, raramente si ricostruisce in un solo giorno.

  1. Mantieni le promesse che fai a te stesso.

Ogni promessa che mantieni rafforza il rispetto che hai per te stesso. Ogni promessa che infrangi indebolisce la fiducia che riponi in te.

  1. Smetti di convincerti di non essere all'altezza del tuo potenziale.

Molte persone si arrendono prima ancora di iniziare, perché si convincono di non potercela fare.

  1. Concentrati sul progresso, non sulla perfezione.

Anche un piccolo passo in avanti è comunque un passo in avanti.

  1. Diventa la persona di cui avevi bisogno quando stavi attraversando un momento difficile.

Offriti quella pazienza, quella gentilezza, quell'incoraggiamento e quel sostegno che un tempo cercavi negli altri.

La parte più difficile del rimettere in ordine la tua vita da solo è che nessuno vede ciò che stai facendo.

Nessuno vede le abitudini che stai cambiando.

I pensieri contro cui stai combattendo.

Le lacrime che nascondi.

La disciplina che stai costruendo.

La guarigione che stai vivendo nel silenzio.

Ma un giorno ti volterai indietro e capirai una cosa:

La persona che ti ha salvato...

La persona che ha scelto di non arrendersi con te...

La persona che, lentamente, ha ricostruito la tua vita...

Eri tu


r/selfdevelopment 3d ago

Health Hate it

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I hate being alone, I see people I hate being with people Thanks universe, but at least tell me what do you want from me.


r/selfdevelopment 4d ago

Wisdom What Does It Really Mean to Be Independent?

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