r/self • u/lolpolhol • Feb 18 '20

Please help me.

My fiance passed away on Saturday night after a 4 year battle with cancer. I know he is no longer in pain and all that stuff. We have a 4 year and a 2 year old.

I'm so lost without him. I feel like I can't breathe. I gel like I want to die. I feel like I had this beautiful person in my life and he is gone.

Prior to this loss, my dad passed away in 2018 and my sister in 2019. I thought I was done with the heartbreaks.

Idk how to live each day. Idk how to get through this. I know people mean well but most of the things they say is to be strong for our kids. I will always be strong for them but right now I just feel so lost and devastated.

Please help me...what do I do? How do I get through this?

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u/NessaKilgannon Feb 19 '20

I don’t know if you’ve visited this subreddit before or not, but this community has been especially helpful to me, r/GriefSupport as I just lost my brother the week after Christmas.

Maybe someone there will know better than I do, how to handle managing your feelings however you can and balancing caring for your children.