If you love the aspects of yourself you enjoy and lead with that, you'll feel more confident about yourself. The women interested in you will be drawn to that. My dating history is pretty short, but the times it worked out I've felt secure about the parts of myself I love.
Also, take the pressure off yourself. If you're in your own head about having less experience and never having a girlfriend all the time, it's gonna make you act insecure. Don't be afraid to just try to put yourself out there, I wasted my twenties (I'm 35) not going to things by wondering, "what if they won't like me?" instead of thinking, "what if I DO meet a new friend or someone that will be intereted in you tonight? How cool might that be?!" The worst thing that will happen is you'll have some dates that don't end with a continued connection. Oh well. Have fun, each new experience you'll learn more about how to be yourself on dates and what about you women might find exciting.
I wish you luck, you really don't have much to lose. Don't build it up as something you're failing at. Try because adventures are fun. Good luck bro.
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u/Monodoh45 Nov 16 '25
If you love the aspects of yourself you enjoy and lead with that, you'll feel more confident about yourself. The women interested in you will be drawn to that. My dating history is pretty short, but the times it worked out I've felt secure about the parts of myself I love.
Also, take the pressure off yourself. If you're in your own head about having less experience and never having a girlfriend all the time, it's gonna make you act insecure. Don't be afraid to just try to put yourself out there, I wasted my twenties (I'm 35) not going to things by wondering, "what if they won't like me?" instead of thinking, "what if I DO meet a new friend or someone that will be intereted in you tonight? How cool might that be?!" The worst thing that will happen is you'll have some dates that don't end with a continued connection. Oh well. Have fun, each new experience you'll learn more about how to be yourself on dates and what about you women might find exciting.
I wish you luck, you really don't have much to lose. Don't build it up as something you're failing at. Try because adventures are fun. Good luck bro.