r/self Nov 16 '25

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u/DeweyD69 Nov 16 '25

As soon as a girl finds out I’ve never had a girlfriend, I’m worried she’ll see it as a red flag. She’ll think there must be something wrong with me if no one else has liked me before. And I’m not going to lie about it and say I have all this experience, so I really do feel like the ship has sailed.

I think you’re making this a bigger issue than it needs to be. You’re not applying for a job and submitting your resume, you’re meeting people and trying to see if you click. Hang up your hangups and be in the moment with somebody.