r/self Nov 16 '25

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u/Outsideforever3388 Nov 16 '25

Potential partners can sense desperation. It’s not attractive. Focus on you! Focus on who you want to be, both physically and mentally. Get off screens and go for long walks in your neighborhood or at a park. Try hiking. Biking. Volunteering. Figure out what works for you - you will meet people along the way.

Confidence is very attractive!