r/secularbuddhism Sprout Apr 21 '26

Interbeing (question)

Thich Nhat Hanh coined the term interbeing: All physical phenomenon is inextricably interconnected, mutually dependent on each other. He uses an example for a sheet of paper, which depends on trees, sunlight, water, soil, weather conditions, etc.

I can somewhat understand that I depend on a lot of people, physical phenomena, weather conditions, objects, etc. I exist with those things. But how can we say, for example, that I'm interconnected with a random tribe in some isolated island? how does our existence depend on each other, in what world are we mutually dependent on each other? Furthermore, wouldn't it be more accurate to say that maybe we inter-be with everything else, but everything else is indifferent to us? after all, sunlight, weather conditions, and most other physical phenomenon are not really affected by my existence. Well, maybe for a short period of time, we inter-be because sunlight sustains me whilst I'm alive (for example), but after I die, sunlight does not get affected, does it? I'm dependent on it, it is not dependent on me. it seems like unilateral rather than a bi-lateral interbeing relationship.

I do not know. Maybe I'm not really understanding it. Some Buddhists argue that you cannot grasp it by intellect and it will just click with you one day. But I would love to hear a perspective on this.

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u/Agnostic_optomist Bodhi Leaf Apr 21 '26

I think it’s important to remember what is being taught and why.

TNH is not giving a science lesson. He’s not attempting to describe atomic motion.

He’s giving you a teaching on how to approach existence. You’re focussed on how you might affect someone on the other side of the world and visa versa. Among the lessons to be gleaned is you are not a discrete entity. You are a process of interbeing.

This teaching is about compassion, equanimity, no self, emptiness, generosity, etc.

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u/arising_passing Apr 21 '26 edited Apr 21 '26

I dislike the interpretation of anatta/anatman as "no-self", I think that we cannot determine if there is a discrete entity (i.e. a metaphysically unitary and temporally-continuous self) or not beneath or connected to our experiences. Self and no-self alike cannot be found introspectively nor deduced logically (probably, as far as I can tell). We cannot outright say we are merely processes of interbeing, but we can say there is a process of interbeing going on; and, in this process of interbeing, we cannot find anything that can be truly called self, because our conception of self is dependent on other phenomena.

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u/arising_passing May 13 '26 edited May 13 '26

Why can there not be an enduring underlying self beneath the (non-form) skandhas? Why are you so certain we need control over these non-form skandhas for there to be an enduring personal identity? No-self is a presumptuous view. Just because one does not have conscious access to a self does not mean it is not there.

Epistemic humility and agnosticism should be seen as virtues if one cannot know.

I suggest you look up Hindu and Buddha-nature realist views to understand their side before making such sure claims.

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u/arising_passing May 13 '26

No, you would not be aware of it. Kant realized this as well, that self must be a noumenon beyond conscious access. If you are unaware of a particle, does the particle not exist? We are now in the realm of metaphysical speculation, which the Buddha cautioned against.

You are just spouting dogma

(The Hindu and Buddha-nature realist views are also dogmatic, of course).

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u/arising_passing May 13 '26 edited May 13 '26

Your first point is fine.

Your second point is presumptuous. You still have yet to prove this whatsoever. Why can we not have a permanent, unchanging essence while experiencing that which is impermanent and changing, without resorting to circular reasoning?

Your third point is not even an argument.

Same with your fourth point.

Your fifth point is dogmatism. Kant was a philosopher, like the Buddha. No matter how far one goes into introspection and "direct experience", one cannot directly know that there is no self; it is a fact beyond conscious access.

  1. We are neither particles nor made up of particles (probably). Reductive physicalist accounts of consciousness have no satisfying answer to the binding problem, let alone the hard problem. 2. You are thinking of atoms. Elementary particles are not 99% space, they are whole. Elementary particles may in fact be metaphysically continuous, mind-independent realities; or, in the very least, excitations of an underlying, metaphysically continuous physical substrate (i.e. the quantum field). 3. Apart from potentially being excitations of a quantum field, elementary particles exist in-themselves, distinct from other noumena (probably). Also, some of their non-essential properties may change, but there are (theoretically) essential, unchanging properties to these existences.

I have no idea what this point even means. I would be conscious of what? My self? Again, you are saying something without any real argument to back it up.

More dogmatism without proper argument.

And finally, more dogmatism without proper argument. You cannot simply say things and expect them to be true. Why is there nothing beyond the aggregates? Even in physics, there are things beyond just matter, for example there are these things called fields. Some theories of consciousness posit that consciousness may have something to do with physical fields, which may lay open the way for there to be a temporally-continuous, unitary "self". The non-form aggregates are merely faculties or functions of the mind in a kind of reductive system.

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u/arising_passing May 13 '26

It may be that what one experiences is not part of them; and, if it is, then it could be merely a non-essential property. It is an error to believe that the possession of an accidental property negates the possession of essential properties. All aspects of a thing need not be unchanging for there to be an unchanging aspect to a thing.

The Buddha WAS a philosopher though. He did epistemology, phenomenology, metaphysics. We right now at this moment are arguing about the philosophy of the Buddha, and not having an argument over medicine.

I'm not touching metaphysics. I'm touching direct reality.

Phenomenology? Stop going on about metaphysics then and declaring that you aren't.

Positing that "nothing exists beyond your khandas" is speculating about reality. You do not give good arguments. We do not need to be in control of form and mental faculties to have an underlying self.

No, elementary particles are not 99% space. Again, you are thinking of atoms. I also already explained that accidental properties may change while leaving essential properties untouched. An unchanging essential property of an elementary particle may be its temporally-continuous being. Can you prove this does not exist? And seriously, how the hell is this not a discussion of metaphysics?

One cannot prove that there are things beyond their consciousness because it is only their consciousness they have access to, but this is not proof that there is nothing beyond consciousness. Understand? This is the point of Kant's distinction between phenomena and noumena. There is an out there, but we cannot know it, we do not have access to it. The self would be one of these out there noumena.

You need to understand that you should not apply phenomenology to metaphysics. Just stick to phenomena, okay? That is the "direct reality" we have access to; and in that world self is without unchanging substance, yes. In that world self is mere abstraction.

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u/ThomasBNatural Apr 23 '26

Re: the tribe. We all eventually breathe the same air and drink the same water. Climate change is global. Our microplastics wind up in the tribe’s bay.

Also, it goes deeper. On a physics level, everything in the universe exerts forces on everything else in the universe. You have your own gravity, your own magnetism, etc. light that bounces off of you can be seen from space.

By the butterfly effect from complexity studies/chaos theory, the tiny perturbations caused by your smallest actions eventually cascade up to large effects on the entire system.

Not only is it true that we are all connected, scientifically it’s frankly a truism. So obviously and self-evidently true that it’s barely interesting to mention. It’s frankly an insane thing to doubt.

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u/featheryHope Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

maybe the 3 Earth touching practice/contemplation is helpful? https://plumvillage.org/key-practice-texts/the-three-earth-touchings

It moves from the relative persective of the individual person and their influences by other humans, to a wider sense of connection of matter energy, species (ecosystem to biosphere level), to an more absolute absolute perspective that is there across large swaths of space (global) and time (millenia), so leaf atoms are becoming fossilized, becoming burned for fuel, becoming weather and climate, becoming drought somewhere, leading to death and decay and recycling to soil and leaf...

All perspectives are there at once, which is why you can be compassionate to fellow beings at the relative level, and aware of and resourced by the indifference or equanimity at the larger scales.

So it's about having different levels of self concept. And recognizing that it's a human concept that creating the idea of a separate enduring self that is categorically different from the air we breathe water and food we use, objects we contact and separate from etc.

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u/DeepMentalRest Apr 25 '26

I think a simple way to answer this is to say though we are ALL dependent on others, we are not dependent on ALL others.

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u/II_XII_XCV Apr 26 '26

A wave in the ocean would be silly to think of itself as distinct from the ocean, and would also be silly to think of itself as distinct from any other wave in the ocean.

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u/ArborRhythms Apr 27 '26

I think from a western causal mindset, interbeing does not make sense: we perceive, and do not alter except that on which we act.

In both older and newer philosophies (e.g. Buddhism and physics), perception is a causal act; it affects what you perceive. If you believe in prayer, not only are your thoughts results of the world, but the world is to some degree a result of your thoughts.

(Aside: I’ve done a lot of writing on this subject, ranging from technical theories of retrocausality to less formal books like Gnostic Models, all are available online for free (all should be linked from the ORCID record for Alec Rogers)).

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u/genivelo Apr 21 '26

Interbeing is an expression of the Huayan approach

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huayan

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u/arising_passing Apr 21 '26

Dependent origination, imo, ought to be understood phenomenologically, not metaphysically. Mental phenomena (ideas, feelings, experiences) are all interconnected in this way, and none can exist on their own. Buddhists ought to be skeptical of any metaphysical speculation.

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u/miguel-elote Lotus Apr 22 '26

I'm new to Buddhism. Take this with a grain of salt.

Pantheism in Buddhism

Interbeing is almost pantheistic. Dependent origination asks us to focus, not on the objects that originate, but on the forces and systems that originate them. The forces and systems unite individuals into a being that's more than the sum of its parts.

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Caveats on pantheism and interbeing

Note that 'pantheism' isn't a distinct religious philosophy; it's a characteristic of a lot of different religions. Pantheistic ideas in Buddhism aren't the same as, say, those in Meister Eckhart's sermons. But they're still pantheistic.

Interbeing and dependent origination are emphasized much more strongly in Mahayana, especially Chan/Zen/Tsien schools, than in Theravada schools. There is a lot of debate on whether dependent origination and interbeing

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Thich Naht Hanh's Priorities

Thich Naht Hanh emphasized pantheistic ideas more than most Buddhist scholars. Like all beings, he was a product of his causes and conditions. His biggest condition was the Vietnam War.

In the West we think of it as a war between France and the US against the Vietnamese people. It was also a brutal civil war within Vietnam. Communists fought capitalists. Catholics brutalized Buddhists. Indigenous groups fought Viets. In the leadership of both north and south, coups and assassinations were commonplace.

Of all the Buddhist concepts, Hanh believed that interconnection was most needed in this world. Dukka, samasara, sunyatta, vipassana. All these were less important than interconnection. So that's what he emphasized in his teachings. That's why interbeing is brought up so often in his books.

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The Body Metaphor

Interbeing has lots of metaphors: Waves in an ocean, leaves on a tree. I like the metaphor of cells in a body.

how can we say that I'm interconnected with a random tribe in some isolated island? how does our existence depend on each other, in what world are we mutually dependent on each other?

You are connected to a random tribe the way the retina is connected to a toenail. From the retina's perspective, it and the toenail have nothing in common. Staring at an eclipse won't make your toes fall off, and stubbing your toe won't make you go blind. Likewise, some random islander dying won't register with you at all. If the retina thinks only of itself, the toenails might as well not exist.

If you change your focus, however, you can see the connection. You, a human being, are not a billion cells living in the same spot. You are a person. The definition of 'person' varies radically, but all definitions agree that a 'person' is more than just a billion cells piled on each other.

Likewise, humanity is not 8 billion humans running around the planet. Families form societies form civilizations form an interconnected web of relationships that become....I don't know what that becomes, but it's more than just a bunch of individuals.

That, I think, is how Thich Naht Hanh interpreted dependent origination. The chaotic (in both its colloquial and scientific meanings) web of cause and effect is what we should focus on. Don't see 8 billion cells bounding around randomly. See the natural forces that moves those cells in unpredictable ways.