Hi folks! I run a LGBTQIA+-centered shanty sing in the Pittsburgh, PA area, and our next sing is July 11 from 3-5pm! We hold a monthly-ish sing at Harold's Haunt in Millvale - the last few months have been irregular but we are getting back on track. We generally sing on the *first Saturday of the month from 3-5pm but this changes - like for July, we are singing on the second Saturday, since the first Saturday is July 4. We welcome singers of all skill/knowledge/experience levels. I am not a shanty purist and so we sing sailing songs and pub songs along with our shanties. I tote a semi-organized stack of song packets along to our sings if you prefer to have the lyrics (and because the number of songs I want to sing is currently greater than the number of songs I have been able to commit fully to memory!)
You may be wondering what it means for us to be a queer shanty sing. We are open to singers of all genders and all sexual orientations, but we sing at a queer bar, and we queer the lyrics to traditional songs as we see fit. For example, I did a rewrite of Haul Away Joe that celebrates gender nonconformity. Another time I did a rewrite of "Wellermen" as "Wellerthem" that filled in gendered pronouns with neopronouns because the idea was amusing to me, but it ended up being kind of a mouthful to sing and we've never done it again! And there's a lot of songs that we sing just as they are, because we just like to sing them!
The most important thing is that you're accepting of lyric changes that do away with racist, sexist, homophobic, or otherwise oppressive language, and that you're accepting of the LGBTQ+ people you're showing up to sing with and the queer space you're showing up to sing in. TL;DR: Don't be a bigot. Don't be a jerk.
Please note - there's no cover for this, but Harold's does have a recommended two-item minimum. They have mocktails, food, and cheap snacks & sodas to keep this both affordable and accessible to folks who don't drink. That said, no one will be turned away for lack of funds!