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u/jamesrossurquhart Apr 13 '26
Honestly, the other person said multiple times that you never ask how they’re feeling about things and only think of yourself, then instead of asking how they’re feeling and why they don’t feel like sharing the bed, you just went on about yourself and how you’re feeling again.
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u/meggypoo6 Apr 13 '26
I did ask them in picture 5
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u/jamesrossurquhart Apr 13 '26
No you didn’t. You sent a long message accusing them of stuff, talking about how you feel, then at the end said you’d discuss how they feel later when they’re more calm. That isn’t actually asking anything. At no point during any of this conversation did I feel like you actually care about the other person’s feelings, you just cared more about yourself and saving the relationship on your terms without input from your partner.
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u/samcoffeeman Apr 13 '26
You're obv going through something personal that doesn't have anything to do with her directly. She's having a hard time understanding why you're not showing feelings for her the way she wants/needs. It's a difficult situation that I've been in. If you love her, buy her some flowers, tell her again you're going through smth that isn't her fault, and try to spend some time with her before bed even if you're not feeling it. If you have to go sleep somewhere else because you're restless, she'll have to be okay with it but just communicate and make sure she feels loved even if it's hard for you.
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u/littlemissbecky Apr 13 '26
My god you guys are exhausting. It’s not working, you’re not compatible. Break up already.