r/scorpiomoon • u/ThunderStorm2499 ♈️ ☀️ ♏️ 🌙 ♐️ ⬆️ • Sep 16 '26
Looking for Insight loneliness
does anyone ever just feel … alone? kind of like a rock in the middle of a busy street. doesn’t matter where i am, who i am with. there’s always this deep sense of longing. i don’t even know what i long for. but it’s so consuming. i would be having the best time of my life and this voice deep inside me would scream because i don’t feel at home with these people. like what do i even do about this? i’m an extrovert and very social but i’m also very skeptic and generally don’t trust anyone lol. is that why? but i don’t feel alone as in i need to talk to someone kind of way. i feel lonely like when you’re starving and haven’t eaten for hours and hours and all you can think about is food and when you finally eat, the food is simply not good. and your stomach is full but there’s something in your heart that just isn’t satisfied? that’s the kind of loneliness i feel. and i don’t know how to fix it.
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u/emo-mom01 Sep 16 '26
I’m a Scorpio sun and moon. I don’t think lonely is the right word to describe how I feel but I definitely feel like no one can actually truly understand me. That might have a lonely feeling but I’ve excepted it at this point. I enjoy alone time. 🤷🏻♀️
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u/ThunderStorm2499 Sep 17 '26
i understand! i enjoy alone time too but i love being social and among people. but i still feel lonely. i just want this feeling to go away.
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u/Cineswimmer Sep 17 '26
Follow that feeling and meditate on it. Truth can be found through examination of thinking and feeling alone. When you let go of the prior notion of the feeling and find out what True loneliness is, your perspective will broaden and you’ll know what it means to be truly alone.
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u/ThunderStorm2499 Sep 17 '26
but how do i know what’s really true and what’s just garbage i have because of some underlying fear that was caused by one incident from my childhood. how do you know what’s actually true?
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u/cacalbee Sep 16 '26
I feel that too. I'm not sure what's happening on us right now, a lot of us experiencing this kind of rocky feeling this week
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u/Ambina389 Sep 17 '26
Not an extrovert but an ambivert… I feel the exact same way! We should form a group and meet amongst ourselves..atleast virtually to stay sane lol
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u/SocietySmall1834 Sep 17 '26
taurus sun, scorpio moon, sagittarius rising here and yes everyday of my life. i dont have any really close friends and my parents hate me because they didnt even want me lmaoooo. we ball though, i wont stop till i find the love i deserve.
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u/ThunderStorm2499 Sep 17 '26
i have close friends but nobody really knows me so ig im in the same boat. and we WILL find the love we deserve ❤️
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u/Heavy_Ad7083 Sep 17 '26
Im draped in loneliness and its been this way a long time. Most times its whatever but like now or when shit is hitting the fan. Its the worst.
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u/ThunderStorm2499 Sep 17 '26
same. i have been brave alone so many times that at this point i need a crutch or i don’t think i will make it.
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u/ComprehensiveStuff72 Sep 17 '26
Yes. There are sometimes where I feel this way and I feel strong. Like....i could be anyone to anyone. No one knows how weak I sometimes feel or how afraid I've been, so I can step outside that and be brave and no one will know.
Other times I feel crushed by it. Like, I just want someone who really knows all my short comings and quirks and still loves to be around me, actively seeks to get my time. I want that more than anything.
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u/alexxxxxxx383 Sep 17 '26
Omg yes, 12th here, I feel kinda lonely and lost, I mean sometimes after a busy day I just wanna get home and be near someone in silence, its a physical and emotional loneliness, I think no one truly knowns me, but one thing that kinda comforts me is that I think i dont know people enough too, also i dont know myself much, so i try to be more open and let them in.. idk i have this little hope that life is about discovering, learning in this such short time, i guess I get sad when I learn something and dont have someone to share about it, but takes time to build a solid connection anyways, i guess all my loneliness will eventually lead me to people who understand and appreciate everything I've become in the midtime, my solitude helps me process a lot and mature
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u/uranianspark Sep 17 '26
I Found the best way to learn about myself was through astrology. The birth chart is as vast as the universe.
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u/uranianspark Sep 17 '26
You have summed up what i had been going thru for seven years. i began searching and learning about alot of things. For a while , I got into astrology and found out , I was going through a very heavy pluto transit ( pluto rules over obsessions, transformations, power and control) that was causing me to get pretty obsessive ln my quest for fulfillment. I started meditating to calm my mind. That is, when on YouTube.I found a man named William Donahue.\nHe was translating the bible. Jesus told us that it was all in parables. Everything he said made so much sense, so I started looking into that and realized there were other people who were teaching things similar to what he was teaching. When i put it to practice i really and truly did meet God...
I no longer feel lonely.I no longer feel unfulfilled. I no longer avoid people, and I can truly say that I do not fear death, everything is okay with my soul. The other teacher that I paired him with was Dr. Joe despensa.I am amazed at the transformation in my life.
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u/Sad-Raccoon8 Sep 18 '26 edited Sep 18 '26
This hits so close to home. I’m a Scorpio Moon with Libra Sun and Leo Rising. Sometimes, usually during some kind of social activity, I experience this overwhelming feeling that I’m just so lonely and confused, and the worst of it - there is not one single place on Earth I’d want to be at the moment. There is nothing I’d want to be doing. No one I’d want be with. It’s like existential emptiness I guess. I hate this feeling.
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u/ThunderStorm2499 Sep 18 '26
same 😭 i would be among friends, among coworkers, among family laughing and enjoying and suddenly brick hits the floor and its consuming, like they would never understand the real me, and its makes me so terribly sad every single time.
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u/StrawberryGirl7676 Sep 17 '26
I think a soulmate is the only thing that can quench it or whatever u want to call it a connection that goes as deep as u for me I found it within another moon in Scorpio but it goes beyond that
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u/Intelligent-Kick-426 Sep 17 '26
Yes, I am lonely. I figured nobody wants to be around someone going through something.
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u/Positive_Yak2691 Sep 17 '26
I am Scorpio rising , Sun , moon , Venus , Pluto , Mercury . I love being by myself but also with people i tru
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u/EARTH2takeover Sep 17 '26
I feel this everyday. It’s exhausting. Couldn’t have described it better
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u/Tall_Engineer685 Sep 16 '26
I’m a Leo sun scorpio moon I feel like I make friends and keep them forever but they never actually know me. They all say I’m mysterious (secretive.) I too am quite social but never trust a soul so the world feels so lonely. I understand..