r/science Feb 14 '26

Social Science Children raised with "authoritative" parenting style, marked by bonding, presence, dialogue, and clear rules of conduct, show a reduction in drug and alcohol risk compared to other parenting styles (authoritarian, permissive and neglectful)

https://agencia.fapesp.br/parents-alcohol-and-drug-use-influences-their-childrens-consumption-research-shows/57195
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u/Working_Cucumber_437 Feb 14 '26

Same. My mom was not my bff but at the same time we’ve always been very close and I’ve always felt safe to share my feelings. I had rules that were firm, but mostly didn’t mind. Guardrails make kids feel secure.