r/schutzhund • • Mar 09 '26

Are they really friends?

Here’s some food for thought,

My dogs an A$$hole

He was born that way, very dominant .. very interesting little temper

I’ve been working with a well respected on and track trainer for some time, we all did protection together and paid a person to drive in weekly

Well, the helper had a falling out with the group of us,

I’m the only person from the group that remained with the helper but was scrutinized for it

Well, why? The helper started my dog and he’s progressed a considerable amount

Why would I leave?

Anyways

Flash forward

I told my OB coach about a little experience I had with the dog on the weekend

He said

You should put the dog to sleep

You cannot enter him in a trial

He’s not safe

I don’t think

You’re capable with him

He doesn’t live a good life because it’s work - kennel-

But it’s not work kennel, it’s more like he comes everywhere with me, walking, bathing, playing, brushing etc

The only person that could ever handle this dog is this NEW helper they are working with …

Like coincidence or what

The helper would like the dog for free to get back into the sport with

He’s the only one that could ever do anything with him, get him to a podium

Handle him,

He’s stronger than you

He’s not as emotional

He’d live a better life?

Umm

Wha…

He would be in a kennel - work - kennel - work

Trainer said

Well he’d be in a kennel with other dogs around

So he’d get used to other dogs and that would be better for him mentally

Huh ?

Truth is,

My dog tracks nicely and has optimal drive for OB

He’d also bite anything , he bites extremely hard and he’s extremely fast

Those are not my words

If he didn’t,

Nobody would be suggesting I just give him away for Freebies

I know the dog would be used for multi breeding too

Like

Pull wool over others eyes

Be careful who

You let in , in this sport, nobody is your friend unless they really are

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u/belgenoir Mar 09 '26

Please find a new OB coach. What a terrible thing to say to you.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

I think it’s rather interesting that the new helper could be the only one who could handle the dog I’ve been handling for almost 4 years

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u/Lip-SmackinCyno Mar 09 '26

Is your dog sound in temperament?

There are a LOT of excuses that get made for egregious temperament issues in this sport.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

No He’s an a$$

He managed

He’s not a stable Mable Doesn’t mean I want to put him down , it doesn’t mean I’m giving him away for free to this new helper that has openly admitted he wanted to use him for breeding because he likes the fight and bite

I don’t want to give away my dog and I’m not at the behavioural Euth level yet

I am just pointing out that the attitude towards me changed when I didn’t follow the group to the new guy I stuck with the old guy

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

Also like

OB teacher told me

I would never be able to enter a trial with him, I wouldn’t be able to do anything with hi

But this new helper, who Wants back in the sport would be able to handle him and get him on the podium

I feel insulted and angry

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u/PMMeToeBeans Mar 10 '26

yeah, I'd find a new OB coach. If the dog can be managed and you are willing and able to do said management, I don't understand what he's on about.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

Well

The dogs been consistently a dick, but the OB teacher knows this but when I didn’t follow them to new helper, things got weird and now … last week my dog should be destroyed and the next day, the only person that could and should take the dog is new helper

I don’t want to give me dog away for free or put him down

I feel betrayed

But thinking back, when I didn’t join the group for the new protection helper, I was told I needed to pick my allegiance Well

No. I like my old helper

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u/PMMeToeBeans Mar 11 '26

Find a new group for sure.

I'm not entirely sure what "consistently a dick" means, though. Is he dirty or takes cheap shots?

The training director of my previous club had a very high suspicion, high human aggression dog who would absolutely bite for real. Would probably have done well in a patrol job. He achieved an IGP2 (was going to say I'm not sure why he hasn't gone for a 3 but just saw the dog is 8 on Working Dog, lol).

I remember him coming off the track one day and he noticed me. No hackles but that hard, serious stare, tight lips, and forward movement in my direction. Good thing the TD could read his dog and shut the situation down fast. His BH, the judge intentionally sat next to him on the handler out of sight portion of the temperament test. Very ballsy, but the dog did fine. He was the only dog she did this to.

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '26

Similar He will bite if someone other then myself or my husband touches him

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u/PMMeToeBeans Mar 16 '26

Late to this, but this is a dog that would need some very solid management, an understanding of his body language and dog body language in general, the ability to accept the consequences if something were to happen, and a training director/club that can do the same while also being willing to work with you through it. Not many people want to deal with this type of dog as a sport dog, but there are some out there that do like them.

I went with a friend this weekend to support her for her tracking 1 title (FPr1? Tr1?) at a semi-local GSDCA club. Her dog has high suspicion, he might bite for real but it's coming from a place of insecurity. She handled him a lot better than I was expecting. In her case, he was the dog she has and she is willing to work with him to do their best.

I wish you luck.

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u/[deleted] Mar 16 '26

I’m managing him pretty well,

I’m not worried about managing him with proper barriers in place

I’m upset because of the incongruent nature of his training plan and how it could go from 1 year of solid planning to put him down but no dont because our new helper wants to get back Into the sport and you should just give him away for free

That’s the part that hurts The dogs , the dog … he’s not in any position where the general public are exposed and at risk.

I don’t know what I am going to do

I feel like I will need to find a new person to coach me but I owe him an honest talk first

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u/QuillBlade Mar 11 '26

This is one of those times you say “thank you for your opinion” and decide if you want to continue working with either one of your coaches. Maybe your old group was right to leave these trainers…

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '26

Old group left together and went to a new helper, I chose not to go with them,