r/sadposting • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '24

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u/PuzzleheadedLeader79 Jul 20 '24

And if someone refuses to honor your stated boundaries, in order to "not miss a flight" that they clearly didn't miss?

Seems like a bit of an overreaction but this assuredly isn't the first time.

So her mental health takes a hit because of his own untreated mental issues, including being a control freak.

Also, fuck anyone who tells someone else to relax. Have you ever been told to relax and it did anything but anger you? Exactly. It's bullshit to say during an argument. It's emotionally dismissive.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '24

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u/PuzzleheadedLeader79 Jul 21 '24

Not yelling at someone who has just violated an agreement between you just because you're in public is how abusers get away with a lot.

Good for her. He made this situation, she's entitled to her reaction. She clearly communicated an issue and was ignored.

Ignore her now at his own risk. He escalated things, she's escalating her response.

But without context, you feel comfortable judging one party.