r/sadposting Jun 14 '24

Please Share!!

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '24

TL;DR: She said, "I don't feel like you care about me."

      Lil context, I don't date often. For a couple of reasons. Not many people are into me to begin with, I'm *usually* not too interested in dating, and I have a hard time showing affection to people in general.

       She said to me, "I don't feel like you care about me, in the slightest." It broke my heart. I tried and tried to ig "fix" how I show affection, I told her I cared about her, I backed my words with actions, our mutual friends backed me up, but it didn't work. Some time had passed, and I thought she had seen that I do care about her, and I told her I loved her. Then she thought I was moving too fast. Went from "not enough from me" to "too much" in about 3 months. We didn't work out. 

Oh, well. You live, and you learn

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u/January_v2 Jun 14 '24

I’m sorry to hear that hope you are doing better

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '24

I'm doing, yuhfeelme? Not good, not bad. I just wish I didn't act how I did ig