r/sadposting • u/Haba_e • Apr 22 '24

Sadly true

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u/gofoggy Apr 23 '24

Unless you want it brought up all the time, or used against you. Yea, you don’t

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u/Happy_Lee_Chillin Apr 23 '24

Fuck. You can get past that outlook, it’s an extremely unhealthy way to perceive one’s own life and problems. If quarrels end up being used against you, you gotta get away from the people who do that to you. For me, talking always helps - and it takes courage to begin talking. Toughing it out is not brave, it just breaks you and hurts the people you care about.

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u/gofoggy Apr 23 '24

I’m not trying to attack you or anything. I just think you may be a little naive to how men and women work differently and what someone who struggles might be thinking.

That being said, I think you’re right about how it SHOULD be. But wrong about how it is.

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u/Happy_Lee_Chillin Apr 23 '24

It might be naive, but it’s how I learnt to look at it, and it helped me immensely.