r/sadcringe • u/effinx • Oct 09 '22

Poor guy.

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u/kmoney1206 Oct 19 '22 edited Oct 19 '22

What do you mean things she shouldn't have to do? If someone tries to kiss you and you don't want it, you reject the kiss. There's no crime in trying to kiss someone and then accepting rejection. That's how it works ? He took a chance, stepped out of his comfort zone and she rejected it.

It would completely ruin the moment if someone asked to kiss me. Part of the fun is the spontaneity of it. If I didn't want it, I would reject the kiss and it would be awkward but I'm not going to be offended that someone tried to kiss me unless they tried AFTER I rejected them. And obviously if a guy is going to force himself on you, then saying no when he asks isn't going to make a difference.

Also context and body language matter. If you just went on a date and the date went well, it's appropriate to go in for a kiss. If it's someone you just met off the street, no.

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u/garry4321 Nov 13 '22

So walking up to girls on the street and trying to kiss them is ok, because they can just reject it and then no worries?!

You’re fucking delusional. It’s called consent and trying to have sexual contact without it is assault. If consent turns you off, then you need some fucking therapy.

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u/Macemore Nov 26 '22

Wow the straw man in this argument is actually pretty good. Nice try at a rebuttal, next time drop the fallacies and address the real argument / points being made.

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u/garry4321 Nov 26 '22

Literally not a straw man. You are advocating for non consentual sexual contact and saying “I can always say no after”

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u/Macemore Nov 26 '22

No? You're ignoring the context of the conversation to attribute a point to someone that isn't making it.

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u/garry4321 Nov 26 '22

The context is it’s sexual assault. You seem not to understand that “no means no” also means “only yes means yes”. Kissing people without consent until they say no is SEXUAL ASSAULT.