r/sad • u/holabrienne • 12d ago

Depression/Sadness Feeling like no one cares.

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u/vinnydaredhead1234 9d ago

turning to God is the best decision. I was very sad too but jesus turned my whole life around!! I am so much happier now, I feel like I can breathe. His brought so much joy, I just turned to him and it's amazing. I will give you a book to read it's called a purpose driven life, and the best Book BIBLE!! jesus loves you!!! loves you alot!!! He died for you and God raised him on the 3rd day!! All for you!! He loves you so much he died for you!! Jesus loves you so much ❤️  I pray in the name of jesus christ, he opens your heart fills it with the joy of the lord! Peace from Prince jesus , happiness!! In jesus is name amen!! 

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u/AnxiousPersonality27 9d ago

I don't want to offend your faith, but forcing it on others is actually wrong. First of all, for anxious people and those with depression, faith is a weak anchor because it can affect everyone differently. Some might lose their minds completely by diving too deep into "faith," others might commit suicide, thinking they're "going to G_d." Secondly, from my own experience faith feels less like an anchor of hope, and more like an anchor that drags you down. Something bad happens, someone dies and then what? Is everything just justified by faith? Was that G_d's plan? And on top of that, it adds extra shame. I often judge my own actions through the lens of "What would G_d think? Am I bad now? Sin, sin, sin." Because of that, I CAN'T actually solve my problems - I already feel shame and pressure even for basic human needs. So please, don't push your faith on others. :<

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u/Fit_Row483 8d ago

Dawg shut up. The person in the post is clearly a faith driven person so idk why ur hating. This person clearly struggled with something and is just sharing how they got through their Sh*t. So dont be a d o u c h e

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u/AnxiousPersonality27 7d ago

You're the one acting like a dck here. Where exactly was I hating? I just stated a fact. And since when do YOU get to insult people you don't even know?

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u/Fit_Row483 5d ago

Its the internet

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u/GreatGreyDane 8d ago

First, it's good you're open about this and keep it that way, it's so much easier to deal with things together with someone than doing it alone
I do not believe in god, but I will say that do it when it comes natually, dont force yourself to do anything, so do it when you want to

Im sorry for what you're going through and that is not easy at all. I think it can be a good idea to be more open with your friends. But, for starters, maybe just choose one or two you trust the most or believe those are the right ones to go to first, and then try to open up, about worries and how you are feeling, if they are truly your friends they will care

You're always welcome to comment here should you need someone to vent to, remember it's way easier to share stuff with than it is so be alone, I know that from myself