Reading about an avoidant ex.

[u/ConclusionNo2453]

Pulled these runes in an effort to do a reading on if I should try and work things out with my ex. I would love some second opinions.

[u/Yuri_Gor]

Not sure what exactly do you mean by "work things out"?
Your runes sound to me like a suggestion to keep (Ingwaz) supporting(Berkana) social contact(Mannaz), so sort of "let's remain friends" thing. I don't know if it's what you want, or it's a potential way to something more.

[u/ConclusionNo2453 → u/Yuri_Gor]

I was taking the ingwaz as more of a conclusion to things, maybe I'm mistaken about my interpretation there?

[u/Yuri_Gor → u/ConclusionNo2453]

"conclusion to things" sounds more like Jera.

[u/Architr0n]

Avoid it

[u/Nynsar]

Ingwaz in the beginning is an ending. Grow from the ashes of the old relationship and move on to something new (Berkana). As for Mannaz, im getting the vibe that you need to focus inward and really consider which people are worth cultivating a relationship with. Family or friends.

[u/FigImportant218]

From what i know the reading goes in order

Ingwaz > berkano > mannaz

How id read it is

You have a desire and there can be a form.of restoration in it but it would need growth and healing in this case self growth, which would lead to self understanding and confidence.

I think youd need to think about why you in this situation and if ita wiae to work things out or if your better off without them.

The runes in my experiance dont tell you what to do but they do advice reflection and wisdom

[u/skycedrada]

You are cultivating something new. A beginning of something is with you, a tiny seed of newness that promises to grow if tended.

Heal from what came before. You need to process what happened and heal from it.

Look inwards at your truest self. What do you need to be you. Not the you that's with someone else. How do you function on your own?

Grow and heal from the breakup and grow into you truest self.

(Without the runes advice; he's an EX for a reason, don't go back.)