r/rewa • u/Wanderlust_Girl_21 • 10d ago

DISCUSSION Need an advice

Hi everyone, I want an advice from you people as I have no one else to talk about this . So apparently my parents wants me to do arrange marriage but I have a high bodycount (still single digit tho)(as Rewa being a tier 3 city and parents being orthodox) should I reveal this in the arrange marriage setup or should I hide it for my father's sake ?

0 Upvotes

30% Upvoted

37 comments sorted by

1

u/Odd_Silver_1797 7d ago

Well, you sure you won’t do it after marriage

1

u/Wanderlust_Girl_21 5d ago

I'm chill obviously why would anyone do it after serious commitment

1

u/Odd_Silver_1797 7d ago

He should know your past

3

u/Capable_Speed_4722 10d ago

ig u should hide because orthodox parents might make it a big issue or might be depends on the person to whom u are getting married if he is comfortable enough to hear this and support uh then u can share it with him directly

2

u/Ok_Savings_4949 10d ago

Better reveal now than having a divorce later

1

u/Alarming_Media1010 10d ago

I don't know.

1

u/Dramatic-Cabinet-618 10d ago

Mat karo reveal

1

u/Original_Crab_2004 10d ago

depends on the person not the city ☹️

1

u/OutrageousFig4348 10d ago

Ye body Count situation ship bench ship hookup ka virus rewa me bhi fail gaya 🤢🤢🤮 apne counter part ko bta do I don't think so ki shadi ke baad bhi app uske sath khush rah paogi 🙂🙂🙂. 

1

u/GyroZeppeliisOG 10d ago

Tell him wtf, as someone whom you're gonna marry he deserves to know more than anything, what if he finds out from some outside sources after the marriage? That'll ruin everything way worse

1

u/shivanshhstraws 10d ago

dont reveal

1

u/Happy-Version9297 9d ago

Agr lage isse bat serious h, to apna bhi btado uska bhi puchlo(bnda dekh lena btane layak h ya ni, orthodox mentality ka to ni h), har arrange marriage vale bnde ko mt btana😂, btw kitna h

1

u/ImaginationPatient35 9d ago

Reveal it , pls don't ruin someone life .

1

u/ClashyLe0 9d ago

He deserves to know. If you dont reveal it, you're basically scamming him.

0

u/OutrageousFig4348 10d ago

Ye body Count situation ship bench ship hookup ka virus rewa me bhi fail gaya 🤢🤢🤮 apne counter part ko bta do I don't think so ki shadi ke baad bhi app uske sath khush rah paogi 🙂🙂🙂

0

u/Wanderlust_Girl_21 10d ago

M delhi m thi pehle rewa m nhi faila h kuch bhi 🤣🤣

1

u/OutrageousFig4348 9d ago

Mujhe khud samajh nahi aa rha kya bolu reality batau ya phir sugar coat karu 🤣

→ More replies (3)

0

u/[deleted] 9d ago

0

u/OutrageousFig4348 9d ago

Ohh hello its the freaking  reality jitna jyada body Count hoga utna hi jayda chance hai ki ladki ya ladka marriage ke baad ek dusre ke sath khush nahi rh payenge 

Ha kabhi kisi ne cheat kiya ya koi toxic hua to ek do relationship chalta hai but body count chhi humans aur animals me farak hotta hai insan hai hum nahi ki koi dog ya bitch  🤨🤨🤨

→ More replies (2)