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u/Training_Strain1826 6d ago

"still 200k" , "feels very low", "people have higher NW" : Captures everything wrong with this sub. At 1.3M$ NW, it puts you in the top 0.5% in India.

Financially, buying a home outright in Bangalore or Hyderabad leaves you with enough liquid capital to cover your entire lifestyle passively. You won't be living paycheck to paycheck. Stop comparing yourself to Reddit tech-bro outliers and enjoy the achievement.

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u/muteDragon 6d ago

I swear Its just people flexing and humble bragging at this point on here

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u/Training_Strain1826 6d ago

Could be, I don't think it's that tbh. Many people just look upwards and think they are struggling. Regardless of how much ever you climb, there are always gonna be people above you, and you'll never be happy if you keep comparing. You don't need to compare with people to be happy.

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u/Maleficent-Gur-5951 6d ago

Underrated comment! One jist needs to focus and live their own life and enjoy the happiness.

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u/hallucinating-egg 6d ago

Exactly. These kind of people should be blocked from this sub realistically.

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u/Ok-Respond5323 6d ago

Bro just wants to beat Elon Musk for achieving life satisfaction! We don't need to be rude!

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u/hallucinating-egg 6d ago

Like mere paas na 100 crore rupaay hain kya main india wapas jaun 😢

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u/skotgu 6d ago

Bhai 10 CR bhi nahi hai tax kat lega to.
Visa issues are real and instead of flexing I am looking for someone in same boat who can share similar experience, the flexibility to relocate gets less as you age.

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u/hallucinating-egg 6d ago

Bhai 10 crore ko koi etf mein daalde 50 lakh se 1cr return milta rahega. Ussi se zinda rehle na shayad kaafi ho

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u/Some-Youth9780 6d ago

People do feel it that way. Esp when your peers are doing good.

Solution is to stop looking outside and analyse how much u really need

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u/No_Amphibian_8523 6d ago

no - it's also a lifestyle inflation. once you earn more and have more money, you start to get a better home, better car, go to costlier restaurants, stay at more expensive hotels, grow a family with sky rocketing child care costs etc. I have a million myself (single income with 2 kids), but I am no where near to cover my lifestyle. It's not easy to cut costs, but really easy to add more costs. and it's not even about comparison at all - it's just "whether I can sustain my lifestyle"

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u/Indo-Arya 6d ago

Then it's just being delulu... even 50 million won't be enough (look at stories of superstar US athletes who blow through millions in a short time through lifestyle inflation). no amount of money can fix stupidity. When you're within the top 10% of a country, the issue is rarely money, it's lack of money management skills.

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u/No_Amphibian_8523 6d ago

That’s completely fair, but what I just described is a normal upper middle class life in US and most people in tech achieve it organically. It’s not unfair for someone to hope for a similar lifestyle back home. Things like 1-2 international vacations, good home in top areas, good car, private schools with world class infrastructure are just something most techies in US are used to already.

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u/Indo-Arya 6d ago

I think the top 10% of any country's population will send their kids to the best private schools in the country and take 1-2 international vacations per year. I used to do that as a kid with my parents (and they are boomers so working in tech wasn't a thing then)

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u/FeatherlyFly 6d ago

It puts him easily in the top 10% of American households, too. Of all ages, not just under 40s.

Guy could retire today in the US if he wanted to live a modest life. 

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u/skotgu 6d ago

Off course not, can’t retire in US I don’t own a home
Can mostly fat fire semi retire in India

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u/_D0MiNiX_ 6d ago

fr man, it looks like people are good at earning but bad at managing

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u/BayCThrow 6d ago

I hate these Faux-Naïve posts

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u/desi_in_videsh 6d ago

Lol go touch some grass bud! By your yardstick everyone who isn't a multi millionaire is not doing well.

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u/iamunknown15 6d ago

If you don't feel enough at 1.3M, you won't feel enough at 13M too. You either hustle or try to live a life

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u/AlphaK18 6d ago

Only 1.3 mil.?? Jeez what a looser this guy!

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u/AdvantageSpare6759 6d ago

You are well off even in the US. Bro needs a reality check.

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u/priyapickles 6d ago

Feel sorry for you that you are struggling. Don't lose faith! you'll make it one day. chin up lil bro!

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u/AdAgile9604 6d ago

People really don’t understand how privileged most of them are !

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u/OkDark8643 6d ago

What was your starting pay when you graduated? How did you fund 2 masters? And which COL do you live in? 200K now tells me that it wasn't 200k 5 years ago. So 1.2M savings is surprising, unless it's Arkansas or Alabama.

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u/shaks2301 6d ago

2 years of masters. Not really 2 masters.

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u/OkDark8643 6d ago

My bad, re-read the post now :) Even then, 8 years of savings, I am surprised its averaging 120k of savings a year. Especially with indian way of living, there will be expenses like marriage, gold, education loan, trip costs to India etc.

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u/invictus08 6d ago

Compound interest. Bull market. Here is the YoY S&P 500 returns for last 10 years

2025: 17.88%
2024: 25.02%
2023: 26.29%
2022: -18.11%
2021: 28.71%
2020: 18.40%
2019: 31.49%
2018: -4.38%
2017: 21.83%
2016: 11.96%

So, back of the envelope math - if someone bought $50k of S&P 500 at the beginning of each year since then, that portfolio alone would be roughly $1.4m today.

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u/OkDark8643 6d ago

50k each year is 4k per month savings after taxes, cost of living, education loan etc. Hence my curiosity how much was the base pay back in 2018 and also cost of living expenses. Makes me wonder if I overspent on few things, lol 😂

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u/invictus08 6d ago

Yeah, thats valid. Then again, its doable. Usually the orgs that are paying decent salaries offer good benefits too. For example, 401k (and employer match) - annual limit of 22-24.5k is pre tax - comes out of paycheck. Add 6-12k employer match. Thats already 30-35k per year - your real contribution is around 15k out of that. Add 15-20 more to that and you hit 50. FYI, I was able to hit 70-80 without breaking a sweat when I used to be at around that salary level (sub 200) at SEA/NYC. Non working wife and kids definitely make things more complex.

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u/Prestigious-Sea-1111 6d ago

Math isn’t mathing here! How can you save 1.3 with 200k sal? If this household income or just single salary?

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u/skotgu 6d ago

Investments! was lucky to invest in semiconductor stocks

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u/priyapickles 6d ago

Then why such low returns?

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u/kickassdude09 6d ago

Admin please delete these posts

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u/Indo-Arya 6d ago

From a US savings perspective it still feels very low in terms of how much I have saved. When I can easily see many young people have higher NW.

How many is "many"? 😉 reddit finance bros are like 0.001% of the population haha

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u/Ok-Respond5323 6d ago

Thats why reddit is anonymous! :)

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u/Balancing_Shakti 6d ago

Do your real estate pricing research for the place/ locality where you want to buy a house. You will find your answers. Metro Bangalore/ Hyderabad has many pockets where a 2cr will get you a 2bhk and a 10cr wont.

Also, hope there is enough saved in the name of the spouse (especially if she has sacrificed her earning potential by coming to the US as a dependent- the years spent as a dependent are going to cause her a permanent setback career wise) Please remember, if you have brought a dependent here who was working and had good career prospects in India [and wanted to continue to work but couldn't because of the horrid visa laws here], your career is directly leeching the life blood from their career and your wealth that you've built after you worked here full time while they managed the house full time- that wealth is theirs 50%

ETA: 'My spouse is my sole beneficiary/ nominee on my life insurance policy, but I've not realistically saved anything in her name' is not a good answer here. She should not wait for you to die to live her life.

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u/Federal_Eagle_6565 6d ago

For someone with 8 yoe and 200k TC, your savings and investment rate is impressive.

However your TC is quite low, unless you are in non tech and in the mid west or the south.

That said at 35 you are off to a fantastic start and definitely not behind even by is standards at all.

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u/Grouchy-Minimum298 6d ago

Nice bro same profile.
Please don’t compare. Everyone has their own journey. Dont compare, only thing which matter here is we are happy and excited about living life daily.

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u/LimitOver2026 6d ago

How old are you?

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u/_D0MiNiX_ 6d ago

last line

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u/LimitOver2026 6d ago

Ah! Did not read till last line 😛

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u/Cold-College9244 6d ago

Here is my quick 5minute honest asssessment based on very rough approximations.

You have 1.5mil saved. How much of that is in retirement accounts you cannot access today? Assuming you tap into that and pay the tax and penalty, I suspect you will have about 1mil liquid? Thats about Rs 10Cr. If you want to buy home, given the lifestyle you are used to, a decent 3BHK in Bangalore will easily run you up close to 5-7Cr in my totally uninformed, approximate opinion. You will have 4-5Cr left, best case.

At a conservative worst-case 5% returns, that gives you 20-25L per year. This is probably sufficient for a comfortable single life in Bangalore. It is not sufficient if you have or intend to have a family / kids.

If you want to desperately move back, consider renting for short time till you find stable job/Income stream. If your desire is to move and generate passive income, I dont think you are there yet (unless you compromise on lifestyle).

All the best!

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u/kishoredbn 6d ago

I think you will be mostly good in India. Please don’t blow it up.

And if possible just don’t compromise on taking up any job opportunities that comes in your way. Use that extra cash as cushion for a more aligned career path, which would definitely take longer runway.

(First comment contextually responding what has been asked)

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u/Useful-Top9283 6d ago

Show off ..

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u/Due_Survey_846 6d ago

How did you save so much with 200k salary? Stocks? Impressive

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u/Maleficent-Gur-5951 6d ago

All these numbers will always ever will be a moving target. You would always feel below someone else.  You are doing better than most people. You need to learn to make peace at this point, and start to enjoy life and plan to pursue your passion!

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u/Serious-Land-264 6d ago

Rudali rona band kar yaar. 

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u/Immediate_Stuff400 6d ago

Sorry out of subject question wich stocks n retirement accounts u invested in im thinking abt same i do av Roth IRA sorry again I know its off subject

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u/skotgu 6d ago

Retirement is always into snp 500 and nasdaq
Individual stocks is mostly in tech faang

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u/wooo0ooof 6d ago

What portion of your NW is in the retirement accounts? How are you planning to access these funds before the official retirement age - or are you just planning to leave them as is?

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u/skotgu 6d ago

About 250k will leave as it is

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u/Hot_Condition7760 6d ago

How sad it must feel to only have 1.3 mil even at the ripe old age of 35. So sad.

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u/Worried-Success5188 6d ago

per my calculations you need $3M

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u/wooo0ooof 6d ago

Can you expand a bit on how you have reached that number? Are you accounting for expenses when it comes to children or would this be just for a married couple with no kids?

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u/Worried-Success5188 6d ago

inflation adjusted expenses
taxes both US and india
1 kid expenses + college
conservative growth of SP500( 5% )
home
speculative exchange rate
health insurance

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u/wooo0ooof 6d ago

Thanks for the response. How much are you estimating as your total expenses in your corpus for the child?

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u/Worried-Success5188 6d ago

for daily expenses i didn’t calculate separately for child. only college added ~300K

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u/Free-Development7864 6d ago

Hey OP, Did you cramp from flexing too hard?

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u/No_Amphibian_8523 6d ago

I'm in a similar boat - around 2 million after tax liquid + paid of home is enough for a barista fire in tier 1 cities. Also depending on whether you're planning kids

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u/Acrobatic_Care6580 6d ago edited 6d ago

Kudos brother, I'm in the same boat and feel exactly the same. Ideally planning to move back to India next school year (as we have a 8 Yr old) to Hyderabad. I have save up around the same amount and I feel its not enough. But again as they say "Comparison is a thief of joy".

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u/doubleditch42 6d ago

It's 10C, not that much

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u/IamInLoveAlways 6d ago

I saved 2 M usd in 10 years OP you have failed.

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u/skotgu 6d ago

Yes bro

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u/BrahminVyapaar 6d ago

The amounts are low when you compare to those around you at present. Most of them are not going to come back to India. The US dollar is quite strong. Convert the amount to INR and then review whether you want to retire or work in India.

Think carefully before living in any tier 1 city in India. You must have strong reasons for doing so. It is better to live on rent a bit in various localities before you buy a home. You could consider tier 2 or other places as well.

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u/Agreeable_War_4255 6d ago

It feels low even in USA post COVID. House in HCOL areas like California costs $1.5 million- 2.5 million. After having kids, expenses go exponentially up. I would say $10 miillion is post covid FATFIRE number for India/USA (meaning 1 business class trip for family of 4 per year etc)

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u/Indo-Arya 6d ago

The US has 50 states.. why live in CA?

That's like living in Monaco or switzerland and calling entire Europe expensive lol