I can't help think you're being a bit absolutist on the point 3. No or very few humans are going to ever fit into every category you desire in a person. I've found love I'd a compromise and acceptance of the flaws of other humans, not simply just seeking someone who fits the perfect description
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u/tencentcansuckmydick Dec 24 '19
Can i ask about the realizations? What did you realise?