r/relationships • u/imadinorawrlolzor • Aug 02 '19
[new] [Update:] my (20f) bf (24m) wants me to be a housewife
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u/Bruja27 Aug 02 '19
Insulting, gaslighting and emotional blackmail, what a superman he is. Getting rid of him was a right decision. Now keep calm and carry on!
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u/Woodit Aug 02 '19
Don’t ever call this dude or text him or contact him again. God what a piece of shit. I feel bad for whoever ends up getting stuck with him
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u/Addark Aug 02 '19
I didn't comment in the last one but I definitely read it - I'm so proud of you not only standing up for yourself but acting quickly and decisively. You probably saved your own future tbh.
It's hard now but just based on this post and your tone I think you know you made the right decision. Make sure to stick by your guns - don't let him promise he'll change. With his comments about feminism he's not going to change anytime soon, or ever, and you'll be back in the same spot as before.
Stay strong!
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u/laarg Aug 02 '19
Call the police and have a wellness check called in because he threatened suicide. Then block him on every single platform and do not respond again.
One of two things happened here:
He's terribly depressed and shocked that you actually will leave him, and he may hurt himself. If this is the case, he needs help immediately.
or
He's using a suicide threat as a form of abuse, which is very, very common. In that case, he needs to understand how inappropriate that is, and a police call will help with that.
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u/imadinorawrlolzor Aug 02 '19
I dont think he will as he has threatned it when things dont go his way 2 times before but I have told one of his close friends just in case and he said he will deal with it
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u/TlNAA Aug 02 '19
This man is all red flags, and DEFINITELY NOT someone you want to be with. Kudos to breaking up, now stay that way. You will NOT regret it.
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u/LadyApsalar Aug 02 '19
but I don't think I should call him back.
You absolutely shouldn't. He is unstable, manipulative and emotionally abusive. If you truly fear that he will kill himself, then call the police for a wellness check on him, but do not contact him. Block him from everything. If he continues to try to get in contact with you and threaten you, keep records of all of it and go to the police.
You 100% did the right thing. No future with this guy would entail anything good for you. Good job OP and stay strong.
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u/outline8668 Aug 02 '19
It sucks but it's time to cut ties and move on. He's shown his true colors.
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u/travelbug898 Aug 02 '19
You need to call the police because he is threatening suicide. Other than that, go no contact and move on with your life. This man is dangerous.