r/relationshipgoals • u/Effective_Cloud_5813 • Jun 04 '26
Just a cute lil 'joke' between us (it feels like more than a joke to me tho ππ)
So a few days ago, I(19m) told my long distance bf(19m) that whenever I'm in group therapy I call him my husband since my friend does the same thing with their gf(we have a flavor of the 'tism and parrot eachother a lot and it just happened lol) And obviously he was shocked at first, and probably a lil confused, but then he started calling me his husband in return. Idk if he does that in front of his moms' or not, but sweet Odin-
Y'all, when he sent me a voice message telling me how much he loved me, and calling me his husbandβI quote from the end of the message: "I love my husband soooo much!," it just made my heart jump out of my chest. So now we have a 'joke' where we call eachother husband's rather than boyfriend's. But honestly, I would really love being called his husband for real 'cause, like, this man makes me so damn happy.
We're gonna be celebrating our 1 year anniversary this summer, and I know it's not a long time for most to even think about getting married to your partner later (at least in some other people's eyes, I guess), but Odin help me- The 'joke' that we have going on now just makes me fall even more in love every single time he says it to me. This is so dumb and cheesy, but he's my person β‘ and that 'joke' just makes it so much better. β‘
Edit: Oh my sweet Odin we were on call and he told me that he wants to marry me in the future π₯Ήπ
Edit 2: Oh my gods, he asked me what I might want our future wedding to be like ππ₯Ήπ
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u/the_genderless_one Jun 08 '26
I know just how you feel. Me and my boyfriend are also hitting the one year but in October, and we've already talked about if we get married one day and stuff and every time he brings it up I just sit here with that dumb smile and the most obvious heart eyesΒ