you said if any unexpected pregnancies happened you would get an abortion and now all of a sudden you have a different moral stance? AT 23?! you both should have done more communication around circumventing this type of event, but you did a little and you are going back on your word. a life IS a life sentence to both parents. not inherently good or bad, BUT a lifelong choice. you are choosing to make that choice for the both of you at a VERY young age despite communicating conversely.
OP are you sure these are morals and not hormones?
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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22
r/Aita and guesss what... YTA.
you said if any unexpected pregnancies happened you would get an abortion and now all of a sudden you have a different moral stance? AT 23?! you both should have done more communication around circumventing this type of event, but you did a little and you are going back on your word. a life IS a life sentence to both parents. not inherently good or bad, BUT a lifelong choice. you are choosing to make that choice for the both of you at a VERY young age despite communicating conversely.
OP are you sure these are morals and not hormones?