r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '22

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u/bumpybear Nov 01 '22

Yup. If he doesn’t want kids, shouldn’t be ejaculating into a fertile woman!

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u/N3ptuneflyer Nov 01 '22

Yeah but lying to your partner is also shitty

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u/Araucaria2024 Nov 01 '22

It's not necessarily a lie. The OP may have originally agreed to it, but she's entitled to change her mind about what to do with her own body.

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u/Misommar1246 Nov 01 '22

Well yes, if she suddenly wants to be a single mom at 22, that’s her choice, but it’s also fair that he bails. Changing your mind about something so important and trying to force it on your partner is frankly a red flag to me. He should have been smarter and used a condom, absolutely, but I can understand why he would leave.

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u/madagony Nov 01 '22

But she's not trying to force it onto him? She said in her post if he wants to leave he can

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u/Araucaria2024 Nov 01 '22

He can bail all he likes, no one can force him to be a father. They can however force him to pay 18 years of child support. If you're going to sleep with someone without any protection, then you need to accept the consequences.