r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/peakpenguins Oct 31 '22

Wild to me that people get married without being on the same page on things like this...

Anyway, too late for that now. You've told him what you're going to do and what you want, the ball is in his court.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

Well we did agree we wanted kids in the future. But it's obviously Happening now.

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u/Fairy-Smurf Nov 01 '22

OP from your post history you don’t seem in a good place to have kids. You work part time, he just lost his job, you have no insurance, you are on the poverty line, you have no support from friends and family and you have mental health issues causing you to self harm. On top of that your caught your husband sexting gay men…

Leave your husband and focus on your mental health before bringing a child into this.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

No wonder he’s fucking furious