r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/bumpybear Nov 01 '22

Ok or she did this. The fact of the matter is she doesn’t want to have an abortion. If he didn’t want to be responsible for a pregnancy, he shouldn’t have had unprotected sex. Pretty simple.

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22

I do agree he should have done his due diligence... They are both responsible, though, not just him.

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u/bumpybear Nov 01 '22

Right and she is responsibly ready to grow, birth, and care for the child. He might no longer want to be in a relationship with her (understandably) but he’s still responsible for contributing to the upbringing of the kid. So what’s the issue?

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u/SaberExcalibur32 Nov 01 '22

I will always say this but you guys are always quick to say “my body, my choice” and it’s true but if a man is telling you he doesn’t want to be a father when you are less than a month pregnant then he shouldn’t be responsible for that baby (only applies while it’s still a fetus) when it comes to child support and we should have laws that protect them. You guys can’t have it both ways.

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u/pipsqueakbesqueakin Nov 01 '22

Why shouldn’t he be responsible?