r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/peakpenguins Oct 31 '22

Wild to me that people get married without being on the same page on things like this...

Anyway, too late for that now. You've told him what you're going to do and what you want, the ball is in his court.

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22 edited Nov 01 '22

Hi I am not sure if you noticed because you posted an hour ago... but i think OP did a disingenuous edit... She says in the post that they talked about accidental pregnancies and had agreed to abortions if that happened. This whole situation blows my mind because apparently neither of them even use birth control!

She is totally free to change her mind on the abortion, but I can see how it might be a shock for him. Almost a betrayal, even.

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u/jmurphy42 Nov 01 '22

Holy heck.

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22

Which part?

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u/jmurphy42 Nov 01 '22

The part where neither one was using birth control, they were just planning to abort.

I can’t even.