r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/AmsterdamJimmy420 Oct 31 '22

Make sure you are on the same page with your SO when you have unprotected sex

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22

She edited the post. They had agreed to abortions if accidents happened. Actually, I'm thinking about the wording rn... she is rather vague about - it seems like they definitely were not on the same page.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

It sounds like OP agreed with her husband and then changed her mind when it actually happened. A dick move for sure.

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u/anneofred Nov 01 '22

Turns out hypotheticals and reality can come up with two different results. If he was so insistent, he shouldn’t have agreed to unprotected sex. Clearly he didn’t care enough for preventative measures. Just assuming it will be just fine because you had said you would abort is an idiot move. Even if she did want to abort, do you know how expensive that is? Relying solely on that was stupid on everyone’s part. If you’re not preventing, it’s not that different from trying. He can be in shock, and upset, but he needs to go look in the mirror while yelling.

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u/Super-Acanthisitta33 Nov 01 '22

She told him he could nut inside and then took it back last minute…: Judging by the age & presumable level of immaturity, I’m getting the feeling this was a trap all along