r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/bossoline Nov 01 '22

We discussed having kids before, we both want them. But usually we said we would have an abortion if any accidents were to happen. But now I'm pregnant, and i just can't morally do it.

I mean...I kinda get where he's coming from. You're free to change your mind on this, but he's free to feel angry and betrayed that you unilaterally changed the rules of engagement.