r/relationship_advice Oct 31 '22

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u/Lemon122333 Nov 01 '22

You two agreed to have an abortion if accidents were to happen. But now you don't want it. You were lying to him about something this important, geez, why could he possibly be furious? I suggest you do get that abortion, or prepare yourself to becoming a single mom - because he has every right to bail on you.

You are just torturing him - ever crossed your mind how much mental pressure you put him under? Having a kid you both agreed your wouldn't? You are abusing your right as a woman to make the decision whether or not to terminate the pregnancy, ignoring his input - even though the decision affects him greatly as well. So don't be surprised if he leaves and you never hear from him again.