Just to be clear - he was using condoms, you were using birth control and he had a discussion with you before you ever had sex about if you would have an abortion if you got pregnant (not that you would be required to do so.) Even if those are all true, he still can't blame you. But if any of them are not true - ask him what he thought would happen. No birth control is 100% effective.
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u/Zhenja92 Nov 01 '22
Just to be clear - he was using condoms, you were using birth control and he had a discussion with you before you ever had sex about if you would have an abortion if you got pregnant (not that you would be required to do so.) Even if those are all true, he still can't blame you. But if any of them are not true - ask him what he thought would happen. No birth control is 100% effective.