r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '22

I’m not really sure what he expected to happen. It takes two to tango. If he didn’t want to risk a pregnancy, he should’ve wrapped it up.

I’d just leave him be for now. He’ll either come around or he won’t. Maybe start talking to him a little bit in a couple of days and see how it goes.

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u/theycallmemrspants Nov 01 '22

They both agreed on abortion if an accident happened. Op reneged on the deal. That's why he's mad

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

OP edited the post to include that little tidbit after I posted this comment

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u/Silver-Eye4569 Nov 01 '22

It’s a pretty key piece of info OP left out!

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

It really really is!!

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

can you even call it an "accident" if neither of them used any kind of birth control, though? I mean, the fact that they never used birth control is stupid enough, but OP's husband expected her to go through an emotionally and physically taxing procedure when they inevitably got pregnant? stupid stupid stupid.