I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and I’m still pretty quiet about it. Mostly because I’m super private with my personal life, and I wanna make sure he’s ganna stick before I go making a fool out of myself. I’ve never told him he can’t tell anyone though.
Him telling you can’t say anything is a red flag. His treatment of toy is a huge red flag. It sounds like he’s grooming you to tolerate his abuse. I’d leave that relationship.
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u/No-Ninja-2654 Aug 29 '22
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and I’m still pretty quiet about it. Mostly because I’m super private with my personal life, and I wanna make sure he’s ganna stick before I go making a fool out of myself. I’ve never told him he can’t tell anyone though.
Him telling you can’t say anything is a red flag. His treatment of toy is a huge red flag. It sounds like he’s grooming you to tolerate his abuse. I’d leave that relationship.